Sexual and relationship

[alliswellll]

It all started like this, 1 year ago, I had many fantasies to share with my wife, it was our 2nd year of marriage,she didt had fantasies yet at that time, I told her many times about the things that I like to do and she did 1 or 2 times, and I always do what she desires/ what she likes,so its like shes satisfied every time, and now I dont feel like sharing my fantasies with her anymore eventho I fullfill hers, but deep inside my heart I want what I want from somebody,what should I do.

[specialmom]

Marriage really is about putting another persons needs above your own.  You've been doing that and I'd keep on doing it.  Are your fantasies hard to fulfil?  Would she have any objection to them?  

[Nighthawk61]

Forget the fantasies that your wife is not comfortable fulfilling. A good marriage is worth so much more than fantasy. The reality of making a good marriage and down the road, seeing the years of fulfillment are worth so much more than idle fantasy.

Talk to a therapist and find out how to handle being married without the possibility of cheating. You will only feel guilt and remorse if you cheat.

If you feel you must find another sexual relationship, then you should leave your wife, or at least separate until you know for sure that the sanctity of marriage is something that you can commit to.

thanks for sharing. keep us updated on how you're feeling and what you've decided to do.

God bless.
Liz