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Should I leave her ?

Hi! I'm kane 17yrs. old and I want to ask that should I leave her ?
This is my story... I have one bestfriend she is a girl i met her first time in school when i was in 2nd yr. High school then we became good friends and now we are bestfriends in 2nd yr i always helped her and she too was always there for me i fulfilled all of her dreams i bought her cp and other things that she wanted then after 2nd yr we were not classmates anymore but still we used to talk always on chat not in person then after sometime she left ne not talk to me for some months then suddenly she said that she neede time & space that's why she go away then we continued to bestfriends but now i started to love her a lot but she always thought me as friend and things went like this till now when I'm in college 1st yr same as she now we only meet when she needs money from me and now she is avoiding me and doesn't talk to me much and make excuses so i want to ask is if i should be friend with her or i should leave her knowing that she helped me a lot before ?
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I agree.  This sadly sounds pretty one sided.  

I think if she says she needs space, I'd just leave her alone.  good luck
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Ask yourself this............Why would you want to be friends with someone who:  1.  Comes around  when she needs something, e.g. money?
          2.  Doesn't really talk with you
          3.  Avoids you most of the time

If this is all you require of a "friend," then you don't really value yourself very much.  She is pretty much using you because you are allowing this.  

I would recommend cutting ALL ties with her and surrounding yourself with people who value you.
          
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