Relationships Community
Sooo confused!!!
About This Community:

This patient support community is for discussions relating to relationships, abstinence, arousal problems, birth control, cohabitation, commitment, communication, couples counseling, desire, sexual technique, and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).

Font Size:
A
A
A
Background:
Blank
Blank
Blank
Blank Blank

Sooo confused!!!

So a guy I have a crush on for ages and he knows my feelings about him. Hes nice but a bit of a joker. I used to work with him and I also went to Secondary School with him.
He suddenly messages me "yo." out of the blue. I said "Hello" back. Didnt hear back from him for like a few hours. He then messages me back "Hi, sorry been to work." In all of the years I have known him hes not one to apologize.

Im quite confused as to why he has suddenly messaged me etc.

Any ideas?

Thankyou :)
7 Comments Post a Comment
Blank
13167_tn?1327197724
If you've had a crush on him for ages and he knows it,  and hasn't responded,  my guess is he was looking for a little ego boost from you.
Blank
Avatar_f_tn
How would that give him an ego boost?
Blank
973741_tn?1342346373
Because he knows you'd be thrilled to hear from him.  Guys (and girls) like to feel like people have crushes on them.  But since you've known him for a long time and this is out of the blue . ..   I wouldn't think too much of it.  

Anyway, he'd get the ego boost because you are flattered he wrote you and excited.  That FEELS good but is different than his being excited to get in contact with you in the same way you are at hearing from him.  Does that make sense to you?
Blank
973741_tn?1342346373
By the way, you have written about your boyfriend.  Are you still dating him?
Blank
Avatar_f_tn
Ok, thankyou.

No Im not.
Blank
1268057_tn?1379102055
I wouldn't read too much into this.  

Sounds like he was bored OR playing a joke on you OR accidentally texted you and meant to text someone else OR needed his ego boosted.  

If he liked you in any real way you would have known it by now.
Blank
480448_tn?1397235344
I have to agree that I wouldn't read much into a "yo" message, and saying "I'm sorry I was at work" isn't an "apology" per se, just more of a conversational statement, like "sorry I didn't get back to you", or "sorry I missed your call."
Blank
Post a Comment
To
Blank
Weight Tracker
Weight Tracker
Start Tracking Now
Relationships Community Resources
RSS Expert Activity
242532_tn?1269553979
Blank
How to Silence Your Inner Critic an...
Apr 16 by Roger Gould, M.D.Blank
242532_tn?1269553979
Blank
Emotional Eaters: How to Silence Yo...
Mar 26 by Roger Gould, M.D.Blank
1344197_tn?1392822771
Blank
Vaginal vs. Laparoscopic Hysterecto...
Feb 19 by J. Kyle Mathews, MD, DVMBlank
Top Relationships Answerers
973741_tn?1342346373
Blank
specialmom
13167_tn?1327197724
Blank
RockRose
Austin, TX
1268057_tn?1379102055
Blank
Londres70
France
Avatar_f_tn
Blank
TTinKKerBBell
CA
3149845_tn?1386354841
Blank
Life360
fort lauderdale, FL
480448_tn?1397235344
Blank
nursegirl6572
PA