To break up two happy people?

[Mariah2010]

Would really fake being pregnant to break up a happy couple? The past year my bf and I have been off and on during our break we met other people.... He met a girl and had unprotected sex with her, because she stated to be on birth control.. I honestly dont know what was going through his head at the time! but I have forgave him.. He doesnt seem to forgave me for what I did which was get with two other guys.. long story short the girl he met who ONLY knew him for two weeks and already has a son is now claiming she is pregnant with his child. Shes on myspace and has not posted a single photo of her baby bump when she claims to be 6 months pregnant.. Could she be lieing?? it has me really worried because I am pregnant with the love of my life whom I have dated for 4 years.. Please need advice and opinions..

[heatherlynn22]

not everyone posts pictures of their pregnant bellies. if she is 6 months pregnant (i would hope at least) she should have sonograms pictures or at least paperwork from her ob/gyn with test results and what not. demand to see them. if she says no...there is no baby. if she does have a baby in 3 months have your b/f ask for a paternity test. and if you're pregnant and so is this other chic does he plan to stay with you? or is that what you're worried about...him leaving you, his pregnant g/f, for his pregnant one night stand? if you are worried about that sit him down and talk to him. see if he plans on staying with you and your child or going to her and her "child" if she's pregnant.

[Judy246]

Ok, first I want to clarify, that if you and him were a happy couple, you both would not be in this "mess". Unprotected sex = potential high risk pregnancy. Birth control, only she and her doctor know for sure. Why would she want to take a risk with someone she really just met 2 weeks ago and get pregnant, but possible.  You forgave him, but he didn't forgive you...I don't get it, good for him, but not you? Inmature and now trust issues.  A person can be pregnant and never post her pregnancy for strangers to view...in other words, not to many pregnant woman post their pregnancy on the internet.

Could she be lying. Why would she want to lie or get pregnant intentionally by someone she only knew 2 week?  I think you are scared, worried, jelous, insecure and threatened of her and the possibility of her being pregnant with what you consider your man.

If he was the love of your life, you both would have never left each other, have unprotected sex with others (at least he did) and now innocent babies having to come to dysfunctional relationships.  Only time will tell if she is pregnant and if she is, he has to step up and be financially responsible for this baby. Why don't you just meet with her and discuss your suspision. She will either met with you or blow you off, but it could give you peace of mind and nothing is guaranteed. Only she, her gyne and time will tell. Good luck.

[mami1323]

Of course she could be lying but you won't know until the time comes when she has the baby and he can get a dna test.  What does he think?  Has he seen her or seen anything to indicate that she is indeed pregnant.  Having pics posted on myspace or not having pics posted doesn't mean anything.  I have a hard time as well about the comment where he got this girl pregnant and yet he can't forgive you for meeting 2 guys while you were broken up.  That doesn't make sense to me.  So basically he stays with you, gets you pregnant but uses the fact that you are with these 2 guys against you.  All you can do is wait it out.

[teko]

Im with Judy on this one, I wont waste my time repeating it. Cannot say it any better.