Unable to come out of relationship

[crave]

M not able to come out of this relationship. he doesnt want me anymore... he doesnt have time for me at all . I m so alone here... all the time crying and depressed. Im not able to come out of this relation. It has effected me badly. i have made sincere efforts to take myself away from this, but i failed. Now my mind doesnt listen to me. Sometimes i lose my temper bad, i end up breaking things. Im going to a phase where i never imagined to be.
   how do i come out of this? Do i take any anti depressants? I have never met a doctor regarding this. i have very few friends , I dont like being with anyone now. I just sit alone and go through this. I call him all the time and nag him. But his priorities have changed...he has changed. Im not important anymore. Its not love anymore , its anger ... insecurity... i feel disgusted going behind me all the time. I wana get out of this. Please help me. We work together , im not able to get of this place or that job. Seems lke my life is stuck.. and i have to go through all this so badly that there is no end to it. I dont wana lose him too. Its like my life , my happiness is not in my control. He has the control of my life.

[vmvnpv]

I'm confused.  Do you want to break up or has he broken up with you?  If he's broken up with you it's all right to feel upset about the breakup but to feel the anger (to the extent you do) and for it to last a long time is not normal.  You really should talk to someone.  Go see a therapist.  You may even need anger management.  If you are wanting help with the relationship you need to get help yourself first.

[jo929]

You are going to have to get your self esteem back, do you want him to know that he has reduced you to nothing get your back bone up and move forward even if you have him it is not worth it. where is your pride go to work and ignore him, start going out and do something besides feel sorry for yourself.   luck  jo