i hate lying. it doesn't make me feel any better to be lied to. more than anything, i can't stand those type of people that require you to have complete documentation/video footage/emails/phone records before they admit the truth and even then some of them won't. they are the worst.
getting that lying man to confess the truth will probably be as successful as pulling wisdom teeth with your hands. but, you already have your truth. life is hard. take this as one of those hard chapters that life is throwing your way. if it's necessary that you go through some pain, some lack all to begin anew DO IT. your life is all you have and you must take care of you to ensure your happiness. turn to God, we love men but we do not need them
I answered you in the other post.