How about a day at the spa for 2? I know some guy's dont care much for it, but have him pampered, massaged and then a nice dinner and later private desert ....food for thought.
Last year I bought some personalized panties that said "Richie's girl" and some other personalized goodies like candles, chocolate body paint, massage oil and I made a bag of fun. I gave him the card and rose and bag of fun and when we got to the hotel (his gift to me), I did a little strip show for him and revealed the panties. I don't think it's how much you spend as long as you make it fun.
one year she bought me a nice recliner which was wonderful...unfortunately, the cats mistook it for a litter box and that was that..usually a nice card, candy...neither of us really go way out for the Holiday...she made the arrangements for the hotel we went to..we'd rather just have a nice quiet romantic evening at home...
What do I want? I'd love for my wife to greet me at the door without clothing, and ice cold beer and a nice walk upstairs but thats the ....) of which you speak..
My wife has been in considerable pain for several years and sex just isn't much in our lives any more, actually. A nice warm hug and a nice dinner is fine with me.
Jim
Jim - thank you for the reply!
Being that you are a man - what were some nice gifts that your wife gave you for Vday? What do you as a man want for V-day or thing guys in general want for V-day? (Other than....)
I'm horrible at buying Valentine's Day gifts for my wife. I try to claim temporary amnesia and say I forgot. Yes, I've done the flowers delivered to work which was always a hit but she's not working right now and I think she's tired of those, prepared a nice romantic dinner at home but the romantic moment is always broken by one of the kids asking for money...we've gone to a nice hotel for a lovely dinner and wine and a room for the night but the wine made her sleepy and...well...the TV was good...
Like Judy we just got past Christmas...I'll wait a while before going into a panic over Valentines Day
Jim
My husband always tells me to buy him lingerie for valentine's day..for me to wear for him, not for him to wear lol He seems to like it, lol I've gotten him one of those cookie bouquets before which he liked, but those can get really expensive, but you can make your own since your creative lol
Umm yeah that's all i have lol I have no idea what to get him this year lol
lol yes - i like to think ahead. Let me know anyone else out there what ideas you have for good romantic v-day gifts!! thank you!
ps....I'm still recovering from Christmas and of New Year is not hear yet, so you are way ahead of yourself in holidays :) )....good luck!
I always had the same problem. I would always get girly gifts, I think valentines day is hard to get a guy. I like the things you got your boyfriend, you're very creative.
I'm not as creative as you, but i would say take him out to dinner even if its the day before or after, or a small vacation somewhere even if its just 1 night. Sorry i'm not much help but remember the best gift you can give him is your heart.
It's a little complicated, because everyone is different and has different taste. My fiance has EVERYTHING and is very difficult to buy for. He did enjoyed that I treated him to his favorate steak house (for 2, which I enjoyed and benefit from the gift also :). He LOVES to go to fine dinning places on special occasions, so I made the reservation in advance, because it get's full quickly and treated him to Morton's steak house out here in Chicago. They had very thinkg from steak and lobster, dbl baked potato and nice wine. that did it for and throw in a good theatre movie and he's a happy man. I have also given him in the past a gift certificate to "Eddie Bauer's"...his favorite clothing store. Remember that any gift you give is from the heart and should be appreciated, so give from the heart and I'm sure he will appreciate you from the inside out. Good Luck