Virginity

Well my question is ihad been sexually abused by a guy but now im free,iwas virgin when imet him and he enforced me to have sex so many times.
the first intercourse there was no blood and the second one there was blood but he claimed the blood was from bruse down my vulvula.
we went to a gynecologist and she told me that the upper part of my vagina is still intact but the lower is gone but seems to be never present and that could be iwas born with no lower part.
My question is could istill have my hymen intact (the upper part)after several intercourse though inoticed he has problem with erection.
and could ionly have the upper part as the gynecologist mentioned.
That will help me alot as ifeel so guilty and depressed coz he took it by threatening me and controling me.
Thanx God im free now .
Thank you alot


This discussion is related to virgin girl's hymen.

[RockRose]

Lina,  it's impossible to tell what you are asking,  specifically.  The upper part of your vagina is intact but you were born with no lower vagina?  I can't even imagine what that means,  physiologically.

You may want to address your specific question - which I sense is "can I believably convince someone that I'm a virgin based on my current anatomical structure in my vagina".

Is that specifically what you're asking?  I'm sorry,  I can't tell.

[RockRose]

oops,  sorry,  I meant to say you may want to address your specific question with your gynecologist - it's too hard to tell on the internet.

[Lucey12]

I dont see why its so important. I never had bleeding during sex. Mad my bf think I was lieing at first when I told him I was a virgin. But its not really important.

[Lina23147]

My question is that do istill have my hymen intact without any breaking since there was no blood coming out of me though iwas virgin.
Im living in the middle east and that is big issue,im just afraid if iget married my husband will discover and it will be disaster.

[Vance2335]

A hyman can break because of several things and non related to sex.

[maryddn]

I don't think it's possible that your hymen is still intact after having several intercourse regardless of how your vagina is, and it seems your gynecologist doesn't  really know what he/she is talking about. If you research the human anatomy, you'll see. Your hymen can be very easily broken through exercise, riding bicycle/horses ect... Also having no blood coming out when you first have sex doesn't always mean you're not a virgin. To sum it up, your hymen is gone since you had intercourse several times. You probably will not bleed on your wedding night unless your husband is rough somehow. In case your husband is looking for you to bleed to determine whether you're a virgin, then just tell your husband the truth. He should understand that you were raped.  

[Lina23147]

Itotally understand that but as female it is really upseting me to feel that your morals and honors are based on whether you bleed or not,it is insulting me alot to be a female in the middle east

[IAmTheWalrus]

Seriously? It is so sad that some cultures attach such importance to an intact hymen. As if this were the only indicator of virtue. Seems pretty shallow to me.

[jo929]

I am sorry that you have had to go through this, bur Rock rose is right, only the Dr can give you the answer you seek  luck  jo