What is it about porn that intrigues guys????

[LilTuter21]

Can someone plz tell me what is it about porn that makes guys go banana sandwich? My boyfriend is a fan of porn and he's not shy to tell me he likes it. I appreciate his honesty but at the same time it does make me feel uncomfortable. Just knowing that he masturbates to it as if he were to be single drives me crazy. The thing that confuses me is that he's always saying how attractive he thinks I am and how great sex is with me and he's always enthusiastic to try new things. But for some reason he still loses himself in his little porno world. We've fought about this about a dozen times and he just won't give up. The best excuse he could ever give me is " Oh baby, I just whatch it because its interesting to me. I'm a visual person." What the deuce is that supposed to mean????? Somebody plz help me on this. I just dont know what I'm gonna do.

[concern293]

I guess we are all going through that. i don't understand it either. once i went onto my history on my computer and what do i find nothing but porn. at 3,4 and even at 6am. when i confronted him about it he said it might of been somebody else that came into the room. which is so lame. when i have my door lock when i go to sleep. i wish i had my man be honest with me and tell me why he likes watching it.

[tiger007685]

Hey im going through the same thing right now.. i hate that my boyfriend watches porn. It was worse when we first dated and i told him how upset it makes me and how it makes me feel. I never understood why he likes it either. Recently i saw his history on his labtop and he was visiting porn again.. it makes me feel so bad and when i confront him about it he just says it makes him feel different then sex- cause of course i told him why does he need it if im there. then he said its nothing new to him because he has been watching it soo long. I told him i hate him looking at other girls and he just says well its not like they are coming out of the TV so im not cheating. I honestly dont know what to do anymore it makes me feel like im not good enough. My friend doesnt care that her boyfriend watches it cause she feels he likes the action and not the girl but still it bothers me so much.... i dont know if he will ever give it up because he doesnt understand its a big deal. hopefully we can make this work :]]

[msniki412]

You know, when I first started going out with my boyfriend he use to watch porn like crazy on the internet. I remember one time I used his computer and was logged in under his name, I went into his "favorites folder" on aol, and OMG so many porn clips!!!!! It was so disgusting!!! I asked him why do you have so many porn sites saved? He told me he just likes watching them and gets off on them. I said ewww. We had a long talk and now he has been porn free for a while now. He says he doesn't need the porn anymore because he has me now. So we have been dating over 2 years now and everything with the porn is over. Thank god! He was honest like your BF, but still it was gross to think he was watching it. All I can say is talk with your BF and tell him that your really unconfortable with him watching it. IF the two of you are serious about one another, he will give it up like mine did. Good luck!!!