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What..is going on..-_-

So..i think im addicted or I just cant control myself around my bf..i see him &i get excited..really excited..and im always...ALWAYS "wanting" him..i see him come home and I feel like a puppy cause im so excited and im bouncing around then he comes threw the door and I.attack him with hugs ank kisses..for example: he would be cooking or watching tv and im watching him from a distance like a lion spying on its lunch..ah haa yea..so then I grab him and pull him in the room..(more) some times I.run my hands threw his hair  or kiss his neck or long hugs randomly and he automaticly assumes I want some (and I do) but I say "nah..i just like to touch you" ..then he blows me off and says"i want the old you ..you can go without sex you know" me:. D: ---. So I tried the occupying my self..working out,coloring,cleaning,drawing,singing..and when I see him I kinda ignore him..or try not be too close...but now he is upset cause im not doing what I usually do.. I honestly dont know what to.do ...only time im not like this is the morning.. (morning breath kills :x ) by the way im 18 and he is 26
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973741 tn?1342342773
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Well, the way you phrase the question makes it sound like more than general affection which is typically a quality welcome in romantic relationships.  but then you don't follow through with sex, so you say your partner complains.  

Basically, no, that isn't addiction.  

Being overly affectionate may come off as clingy and not be for everyone.  If your boyfriend isn't into it, then you can either control yourself a little (and self control is a good thing to develop if you don't have it) or find a boyfriend who will appreciate you the way you are.

good luck
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Na not that..i just love him..im not worried about him leaving me ..and if he does I would be able to move on..im just really affecionate..my culture were affectionate,romantic,passionate loving people..and I just love to show it to him..and putting that together..ahaa...i just got annoyed cause I told him how I was when first met and he loved it, then he didnt so I stopped but now he misses it...






(update): we fixed everything (:
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973741 tn?1342342773
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To me you sound more clingy than anything else.  it doesn't end in sex when you go after him for long hugs and kisses and touches.  Are you insecure about him leaving you?  That is what it sounds like to me.  That you are insecure and that is what this is based on rather than some kind of addiction.  (which in understanding what the word addiction means, it wouldn't apply anyway.  Maybe obsessed would be a better word).  good luck
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I know I love him, also.very attracted...his the best..i think im just overly affectionate. Im a Grad.
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13167 tn?1327194124
What is your best guess,  as far as what is going on that's making you sexually aggress whenever you are around him?  

Are you still in high school - have you graduated,  or did you drop out?  
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