i've been with my boyfriend for a while now and we are both very close to one another, but he will not let me see his room. i've asked why and he's told me that he doesn't like girls in his room, and he wont even let his family in. this somewhat concerns me, only because i feel like he is shutting me out of a part of him. i mean he's told me that he's only ever let one girl in there and i guess im kind of jelous. i mean i can't think of any reason why he wouldn't want me to go in there i mean were too close for anything to bother me so i just want to know why and if someone could please give me some advice it would be much apreciated. thanks.
That's a tough one. It could be that he's just shy about his room. Maybe it's not tidy enough and he's embarrassed. It's hard to say if he's hiding something or not, but you know him better and of course it depends on how much you trust him. Have you asked him why it is that he doesn't like people in there?
I think he might just be shy about it or likes some kind of privacy. When I was younger, my room wasn't the cleanest room around, LOL and I wouldn't like my friends in there either. Talk to him some more about it and tell him your concerns that he might be hiding something. Maybe his parents don't allow girls in there and he's too shy to say it.
My man is the same. Cept i have not pried foran answer to why i cant see his room. I feel a lil discouraged in weather i should tryst him but i also KNOW he would Never intentionally hurt me. I was told its not a sexual reason. So im curious as hell but i care about him and dont want him uncomfortable. Im keeping the hope maybe someday he will open that last door to his life for me, if not then it must be a pretty good secret and i might just take my leave at some point. I dont want him to not fully tryst me anything and everything as he should. Time will tell..
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