Womanizer who only wants oral sex

[Lulu1882]

There is this guy th@t I think I'm falling in love with but before we started hanging out he has this reputation for having many women and only receiving oral sex. All his women are friends or at least know of each other. WelL at first I was angry bc he left some of them heart broken. I started hanging out and actually started to like him. We've gotten closer and yes I have given him oral sex a few times but he is slowly starting to do things with me that supposivly he doesn't with the others like kiss me passionately and he has used is fingers to pleasure me. He has a best friend that tells me everything or at least what they want me to know. I'm very cautious on trusting him bc well there is this other girl that was in love with him and she said he did the same things with her. Everyone around town says that he tells them all the same thing and rhea knew things he has aid with me. But at the same time I can feel the love and I can tell he is falling for me and we can stare each other in the eyes forever and a couple of people have said he looks at me differently and he is being real with me. We almost had sex today but his friend was in the room. Well finally his friend left the room but then he acted as if he wasn't into it anymore till his friend came back. This confused me. I can feel our connection but I still wonder if what everyone else is saying is true aND what's up with him not wanting sex? Please help me. Thank you

[AnnieBrooke]

He's just using you in some kind of kinky conquest game of his own, possibly in competition or collaboration with his friend.  (What kind of guy hits on the girl hanging around with his good friend?  Someone who knows his friend wouldn't care.)  Get away from that, it's a cesspit.  Do you know any decent men who maybe aren't so handsome or in demand by desperate women?  It's a horrible sign when you haven't had full sex but have given him oral sex, like he feels you're a prostitute.

[specialmom]

People have patterns.  People have habits.  You know what he is.  I'm sure he's charmed all the other woman he was with.  Every person thinks THEY are different than the others and in the end, he treats them all the same.  So, be strong and make smart choices.  There's a good guy who you can be attracted to that doesn't have a long list of women he's been with and hurt.  Pull up your pride, don't be a number or a notch on this guy's belt and look elsewhere for someone of more quality substance to share yourself with.  good luck

[Chima7]

Don't do it. You'll be sorry. I would bet your life savings on it.

[TTinKKerBBell]

It seems to me You know already know what/who You signed up for  !! - so, what is Your question to those of us who do not know him  ??  !!

If You had asked this question on this forum sooner rather than later I would have said :  The writing is on the wall, don't get involved.  But now I will say - You're already in !! so if You want to know if it's true, well then You will know!! sooner or later You will know

[Lulu1882]

Oh also I forgot to mention that the other girl that fell in love with him did tell me he never told her he loved her and he has in so many words with me and also they broke up bc she slept with his best friend so he didn't feel like she was special. I have been hit on numerous times from his best friend but I reuse to sleep with him and I have made it very clear that I'm only into my guy. I just wanted to clarify why the previous girl didn't last. Plus when I started hanging out with him I told him that I would not be one of his other girls and I will not put up with him being with other girls if he wanted to continue to hang out with me.