addiction to my boyfriend?

[nishma78]

Hi guys!
My boyfreind (ex i guess) and i were together for 5 months.. we argued alot we both have anger issues.. before i met him i have had attatchment issues.. and was single for 2 years..have dated over 10 guys..but never didnt want to continue wtih any of them.. when i met my ex i felt so spiritually connected to him...he told me he fell in love iwth me in 3 weeks and then took it back...thats when things were not normal.. my insecurity and him and i both get defensive and fight... i have childhood issues so a month into our realtionship started seeing a psycholofist..started seeing a psyhologist.. then we would always say we are frirend but then have sex and still be as a couple..call each other every ngiht spend time together..anyways he had told me that if i want he would love to come sit with my in one of my psychology sessions..when i did mention that to him last week he didnt reply back ignored me..but then called me and told me how he met some lady named angel and she was just like oprah and gave him some relationship advise.. he didnt want to share it with me..but the next day he didnt call me..and then he broke up wtih me when i asked him the 3rd time and told me that he cant deal with my **** anymore.. i am so confused to why this change all of the suden? feel so betrayed? and on his facebook he puts down breaking the 21 day habbit on day 5..he refused to answer my calls and does not respond to my text messages.. i havent contacted him in the last 5 days.. just was always blaming me for his anger at the end.. can someone explain to me to why he did that.. everytime we have argued he has never cut me out like that ..he were gettiong along good..??? what did i do wrong now? i have been trying to work at this relationship? he knows i am in love with him and he told me he is not. So then that means that i m addicted to him because i m confused and lost right now? whats goign on? need some advise please?

[imanaddict]

It sounds to me as if this guy found someone else and left you in hanging. The best thing I could advise is to leave it be and move on. He made it clear how he feels, so try not to dwell on it, and on him. Delete his facebook account from yours and then try to start meeting new people. Find someone who IS willing to love you and be in a relationship with you  and NOT play head games.

this guy wasn't the "one" so don't waste another tear on him. Mr. Right will come along when you least expect it.

Good luck!

[mami1323]

Whether he found someone new or didn't, it just wasn't a good match for you.  You shouldn't be arguing so much when you've only been together 5 months.  That's the honeymoon period when everything seems to be peaches and cream.  If it was this bad in just this short amount of time, you can only imagine how bad it could get further along down the line.  He did you a favor by cutting all contact.  You may not see that now because you love him and it's still fresh.  In time you will see what we all can see.  Continue seeking therapy, it will help with all your attachment issues and will help you get through this break up.  You will be fine.  I agree with imanaddict, you need to delete him from your facebook page.  Good luck.