Aa
advice needed
Im 10 weeks & 3 days pregnant. I recently broke it off with the father of my child due to everything he put me through. But now I feel like I need someone to take his place, and im not quite sure why. At the same time there's this guy who's always liked me, from the time I started datung my babydaddy, to the day I got pregnant until now. He treats me better than anyone, spoils me but its as if I can't just see myself with him. Because every guy that does good for me I only wish they were my babydaddy. I don't know if its because I loved him or if its just the bond I have with him because im carrying his child. But I want to know how I can fully get over him so I can either learn to be more independent or actually go out with a good guy who likes me for the person I am& wants to do right by me andmy child.
Great Riaa. Yes, you are right about that. Focus on that and your child; things that are positive.
COMMUNITY LEADER
Right on Riaa, I totally agree!! It absolutely is. It is one of the way we create a better life for ourself and if we create a better life for ourselves, it is a better life for our kids. Peace and luck!
Im still going to school ; I feel like eduaction is one of the best ways to give a child a good life.
I wouldn't be so concern about starting any new relationship at this time.
Glad you did leave the baby's daddy because from what you posted he was very abusive to you.
I can't remember if you were working and/or going to school; are you?
Find other positive activities to do NOT involving a guy.
Glad you did leave the baby's daddy because from what you posted he was very abusive to you.
I can't remember if you were working and/or going to school; are you?
Find other positive activities to do NOT involving a guy.
COMMUNITY LEADER
Going from man to man is a sign of dysfunctional thinking. Love and relationships do not work that way. You'll be setting yourself up for failure if you jump like that.
You are having a baby. You need to focus on your plans for the child. And whether you've left the father or not, this does not negate his role in the child's life.
I do wish you luck and hope you have family to support you and be there for you. Peace
You are having a baby. You need to focus on your plans for the child. And whether you've left the father or not, this does not negate his role in the child's life.
I do wish you luck and hope you have family to support you and be there for you. Peace
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