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alil confused

im just wondering, what is exactly is when a person as u to commit? and is 6 months too soon to ask a person to commit?
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i been going out with my bf for almost 6 months.....i wanna ask my bf to make a committment not exactly marriage bcause we're still young, but the problem is i dont even know what exactly committment is and if i dont know what that is how can i ask my bf, and im scared that he might be afraid questions like this?does this make any sense to anyone?now i didnt ask him directly to make a committment, i just kinda asked if he thinks him and i have a future....? and he said he dont know what if we dont last.......?sighs.......
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What type of commitment do yu want and how old are you?
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Well, when me and my boyfriend started going out we made our commitment at our 3 month mark. We feel great love for one another, and we do plan to marry by our 2 year mark. I'm 21 and he's 22, and some people have said to me in the past when I say "he is the love of my life" and somebody would tell me, "oh you will have another love of your life in a matter of a couple months". Well not true, we have been together now 11 months and couldn't be happier. So I feel if you both love each other, and vow that you really want to be with each other for the rest of your life, then I say 6 months is not too soon to ask for a commitment.
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im 22 and my bf is 23, theres type of committment...?sorry im not experienced i havent been in much relationship....for sure we both dont want to get married right now, he also asked me if i think we're gonna last,i told him i dunno and that no one would ever know whats gonna happen......kind of regret my answer to him but its true though.......i dont want marriage right now but eventually i do want marriage, i think im just scared to tell him that i dont want to scare him away...i thought about onmy part about committment i do think that my bf and i will last the problem is my previous bf had left me for another grl so now i think my current bf will leave me for another grl that it makes me think whats the point he gonna leave me eventually..........thanks for comments;)
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your first comment was should i ask my boy friend to commit the ans is no the man likes to do the chasing the man will ask the woman or girl also  in second post you sayyou are not sure you are ready for marriage marriage is a commitment any other kind of relation ship is just living together and not to many youn people last in that kind of relation ship please wait until you are older to take life so serious if he loves you he will date you and wait if he does not he want worth it  i do wish you lots of luck    jo
ps maybe you should date others before you both decide .
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thanks jo929, msn, and sam all comments were very helpful
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