am i over reacting or am i just to jealous

[crazyGurl09]

Soo ive been datin this guy for almost a year but its an on an of thing because he cheated on me an the reason for that eas because he got mad because i didnt tell him i was goin with my friend to my other friends house so he broke up with me it was so hard on me cause 1st  i lost my virginity with him he was my first true love an now after everything the trusting aint easy well be txtin an he stops replyin for 4 hours an like nothyn it hurts me because i just think the worst about it and ive tryed to end it many time but he just doesnt let mee i reaally need help i dnt know what to do

[teko]

Sixteen in not a mature relationship. It is an emotional one. C what having sex with someone causes at 16? This is why you wait till your old enuff to emotionally deal with the fallout that results. He got what he wanted sexually and when he found out he didnt have control over your actions he cheated? And because he cheated you cannot trust him anymore? Well that sounds about normal at your ages. Go to school and concentrate on making your life what you want it to be in ten years or you might end up on welfare, raising a few kids on your own if you let emotions rule instead of common sense. Sorry for the sermon, can you tell I have kids older than you? But yea, seriously dump this dude, get out of the emotional soup, and pull your life together so you have hope down the road.

[Gymbabe13]

Okay so your 16 , relationships come and go ! But if he really broke up with you cause of that . Then it means it was never to be ! If he really loved you and cared about you he would talk it out with you or figure it out together so give it some time

[specialmom]

At 16, you need really HIGH standards for people you go out with.  If you start at a young age not expecting someone to be good to you . . . what can you expect down the road?  You already have low expectations of how someone will treat you.  No way to start out.

So----------- really.  I mean this.  During the teen years---------- there is no reason to continue dating someone that hurts you, cheats on you and you don't trust.  None.  

Set the bar high for what you will put up with so you never settle later on.  good luck

[crazyGurl09]

Im 16

[cheshchesh819]

i dont know how old you are,but get rid you trust no point,and dont let him bully you into staying with him.

[AUSTIN431]

first of all that's the dumbest reason i've ever heard for someone cheating(not that there ever is a good one) it's obviously just a excuse and it sounds like he's doing it again or just doesn't care about you anymore why else would he act like that? and how can he not let you leave him? it sounds like you already made the decision to leave and it sounds like the right choice so you just need to realize that you are your own person and you make your own choices if its over than its over and he can't say anything about if you've been doing it in person before then do it by email or text and cut of all communication with him its the only way for him to understand that your serious about wanting to move on and eventually have a relationship with a man who won't cheat on you for some stupid reason and respects you