am i too easy?

every guy i meet it never seems to end up in a relationship. its either a one night stand or a fling. i usually give in to sex quickly do you thing this is the problem? im seeing someone at the moment but i dont know where its going. help!

[jenjen07]

....when you find the right guy he wont want to have sex that fast....the guys that you are giving it to obviously only want one thing and you gave it them.....all i can say is you should realize your better than that....it seems like you see the problem....if its love he'll wait....good luck

[slow_healer]

It's been my observation that guys tend not to take girls seriously if they put out right away. IF they're looking for relationship material, then they're usually looking for a girl who will be a bit more choosy and resistant to just "giving it up" to each guy they date. No guy wants to take a chick out, have sex, and then think about calling her when she could just as easily be sleeping with a different guy the next day. Finding quality people can be frustrating, but the patience and wait is well worth the reward of finally meeting someone you can trust. Good luck.

[raindelay]

I've always found women more interesting when I wasn't given in to immediately.  My recommendation would be to be more choosey in who you have sex with and also don't be so eager to have it so early.

The right guy will see more in you than your body and the possibility of sex.  Then, what you do in the bedroom is intimacy rather than sex which is much better.

[jml1986]

Take it slower the next time and I am sure you will have better results.Giving in so fast makes you more of a booty call then someone they would want to settle down with.