baby daddy cheated once agian. im so done

[julieefruiity]

After 3 years of cheating on me non stop my babys father got locked up for 2 months and would call me crying and every 2 hours to know about me....
Been a month and  1 week hes been out and he doesnt even wanna give me 5 minutes out of his time...


It was 12 am tonight I went thru his phone and once agian ive caught him cheating on me with the same stupid girl from 2 years agp that has 3 kids and a damn husband him and her are the same worthless...


I was over the top mad I jst left
Now 3:40 am and I still cant sleep so stressed out and 6 weeks pregnant with our 2 nd child...



I so need a friend I feel like I have no real people to talk to because no one I know goes thru what I go thru so they jst dont get me


Any one else have a cheating baby daddy and have had jst enough of the bs? :/

[julieefruiity]

Its overr yall.
This was the last bs i wass gunna take.l from him
I dnt think he wants to show up at my house tryna tell me bs when he knows I dnt keep my hands crossed anymores..


Im jst better off alone

[Chima7]

You keep taking him back every time he cheats so why should he stop? He will keep running around with other women and you'll complain about it to him but he'll keep doing it because you keep taking him back. You've taught him nothing except that you're willing to put up with all of his bad behavior and as a result he will never take anything you say seriously when you threaten him. He has you wrapped around his finger. You created this problem by not putting your foot down the very first time that you caught him cheating. Now it's too late to change the dynamics because he truly doesn't care.

[nursegirl6572]

WONDERFUL POST!!!

[specialmom]

Okay, just gotta ask the obvious . . .   why are you having kids with this guy?  Two kids by a chronic cheating person who has to go to jail (meaning he does BAD things . . .   illegal things . . .)-----  I wouldn't want to tie myself to that kind of character (low character) for the rest of my life by having kids with them.

Clearly, you should not take him back.   This is the advice you've gotten from all.  Do NOT contact the other woman's husband or her.  Rise above and put an end to drama in your life.  As a mother, peace and harmony is your goal.  You will never get it from this man.  

Move on and don't date for a good long time until you've kind of done some soul searching to figure out why you were with him all this time and had kids with him when he has a history that goes way back of being a jerk/cheater.  You've always deserved better and yet, you settled for him.  I want you to be happy in the future and to be with a man who loves and respects you----  but first we have to understand why we made the choices we did when we didn't have that.  We ALL make mistakes along the way but learning from them is how we get to a better place in life.  I so want that for you and your kids.

good luck hon

[nursegirl6572]

I agree, you deserve MUCH better.  I too hope you hold your ground this time.

Also, I wouldn't advise getting involved with the drama of telling this woman's husband.  That's THEIR problem, and believe me, if he hasn't already, he'll find out about her cheating ways.  Don't insert yourself in that situation.

Good luck to you hon!

[blunts_roses16]

You don't deserve that.

[yukijae]

I hate to say it but once a cheater always a cheater.  Ive been cheated on before and aftrr a few times and a couple differnt guys I learned to leave at the first sign of that crap.

Makes me mad that guys do that when they obviously have it good. Like with you, stable gf and living space with his own kid, what more could anyone want. Hes stupid honestly. I swear all those type want is to play games and spread seeds. So annoying!!

Sorry if im kinda ranting here im probly about 5 weeks if im prrgnant so im going crazy over that concept already and men in general already annoy me like crazy, especially the cheating cheap *** .. ... wanna swear so much :p

[tattedmommy2be]

My boyfriend used to cheat on me when we first started dating but he doesn't now. I know how it feels to look at a phone & see stuff like that and im sorry you have to go through this while you're pregnant. I hope things get better for you. Try to stay calm and not stress too much because its bad for your baby

[julieefruiity]

Ive msged him but no response yet..

Its so nasty how ppl like them go this low...
But karma will get to them later on

[whisper9008]

Have you called the woman's husband yet?  Chances are he doesn't know his lady's stepping out on him. Women hate it when men cheat we kick them out and usually cuss out the other woman, men play just as nasty.

[julieefruiity]

Uff soo true the times we have broken up hes always the one who gives in and looks for me

Im jst worried hes not going to get the point and try to show up like if im still his I dnt wanna be his property anymore

Im really hoping he leaves me alone so I can jst move on:/

[DecemberBaby14]

You go girl! You don't need this and certainly your baby doesn't need a role model like that! Don't let his arse into your home ever again and stay strong! I stick up for you, once he's cheated he's going to do it again.

[squidbabeh]

Girl hell yeah you do. Don't go back to him and let him think he will always have you no matter what he does. He needs to know you are strong and don't need his cheating nastiness, pregnant or not.

[julieefruiity]

Girlllll 3 huge slaps to the face sureee did wake him up lol...

Love is blind.. until one day I jst couldnt take no more and this was tonight..
My harmonal butt went off on him not. Something ive ever done


Today was the last time I take bs like this..
Me && my bbys deserve betterrr thats forsure

[stephannieluvv]

Cut him off! He'll like an idiot as he should after you do, you don't need or deserve that :( did u wake him up and kick his cheating butt out?! Stay strong girl and stick to your guns this time

[My2LoveBugs]

& then , you took 3 years of this and now look you are pregnant from this Bum!

[My2LoveBugs]

You must have gave in & allowed him to get you with that JAIL TALK! lol. & You fell for it like he wanted you too ..most guys when they are behind bars they spare out so many lies to make you feel sorry for them . Omg , it's unbelievable! I do not give my number out to jail birds , & they will not be contacting me from their cells ... you better drop that 0 .