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bad kisser..

What is a nice way to tell a guy he isn't the best kisser? He can be a bit 'slobbery' when we kiss. He's the nicest guy, but he just can't kiss. Any ideas?
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There is not like a delicious, juicy, passionate, long lasting kiss that will leave you tingling...I've had them, ahhhhh, then they turn around and break your heart...yeap...it happened, but those kisses were to die for. :)
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Mmm, Latin Lovers are awesome... ;) lol.
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176495 tn?1301280412
dang, Iamanaddict...you have to ruin all my fun ;-)
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I am a total Latin Lover as my friends say, always been attracted to Hispanic men. lol. Something about them is just so hot. yummy. I know my new boyfriend doesn't very well, but figure he can be trained. There are other more important traits I'd look for first above him being a good kisser. I'm going to see him in about half an hour, so yay for a hot night. haha.
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303824 tn?1294871401
I LOVE a good make out session! It sometimes is better than sex IMO and when the two are combined...Holy smokes, watch out! LOL!!
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Costa Ricans are Latin and Latin's are HOT in every department, that is why they called "us" latin lovers, but I've never heard of one that can't kiss....ouch!
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Latin lovers, hahaha. So much can be said in a kiss. I can actually tell if the guy is good in bed by a kiss...oh yeah! If he kisses me and leaves me breathless, then he is a keeper. If he kisses me sloppy, concern and decision has to be made. Do I love him enought to work with him and show him how I want to be kissed or simply not want a man that needs to be trained.
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303824 tn?1294871401
LOL Jim! Your wife might try and hunt me down and beat me up! XD
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176495 tn?1301280412
good to see you again, Judy and thanks...


I didn't know that about Puerto Rican folks...how about Costa Rican folks?


Jim
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Hi everyone, it's been a while and I say show the guy. I'm Puerto Rican and we are hot blooded by nature, lol, but it happens....take the initiative to show him....it will be a plesant surprise.

Jim, thanks for the note...hugs and missed everyone.
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176495 tn?1301280412
I'm right here, imanaddict...see you in a little bit :-)


Jim
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303824 tn?1294871401
LOL! You go girl!
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I think he's with me. ;) LOL. jk!

I'm going to see him tonight, so I'll see how it goes. He's good with other areas of physical contact, he just can't kiss. I'll make sure the kissing is different tonight. :)
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303824 tn?1294871401
Oh that brings me back to a guy I dated a LONG time ago. Oh man was he HOT and Puerto Rican and just so absolutely yummy! LOL! Anyway, he could not kiss to save his life and that is something I just can't stand. On one of many make out sessions =)  before I started kissing him, I told  him to follow my lead and that I love gentle, soft kisses. He followed wonderfully and it was heaven. I wonder where he is these days? LOL! J/K!
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I agree with Judy as usual! :)

Teach that man now what you want, how you want it. If you dont, you will be the one left with getting nothing out of it. This includes all areas of physical contact. Otherwise, how do they know? We women are not all alike.
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Sure, instead of tell him of his weakness or fault, actually show him during these intimate moments how you want to be kissed. Actually, it will turn him on. Just grab his face and tell him, "This is how I want you to kiss me"....that way, you don't offend him and turn him off an and get the results that you want...good luck!
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thanks. I'll see him tomorrow, so I can talk to him then. I just don't want him to get upset by this, don't want to make him feel bad. I really like him, he's just a wet kisser.
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779811 tn?1278364363
sorry for the miss type i will write it again for you ... just be onest and say the trueth ... but not in a clumsy way just sit down and tell him .... can i tell you something but dont take it as an offance......
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779811 tn?1278364363
just be onest and say he turet ... but not in a clumsy way just sit down and tell me... can i tell you something but dont take it as an offance .... just be polit
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