confused

[aarroyo]

i guess i have a situation i need advice on.i have been living with my boyfriend for 2 years now.i just had a baby 3 weeks ago.everytime we go anywhere he stares at other women some very young like teenage high school age.he ignores me alot now since i had the baby,but always seems to have time to give attention to everyone else but me.he is also very selfish in bed.mostly my prob is about the young girl thing.is it strange that a 28yr old man stares at teenage grls or am i being paranoid?he is also very defensive when i confront him about it

[mayflowers]

RockRose, that was funny!  Of course, her m.t. wasn't too too bad, I'vd seen worse walking about the mall and you just got to wonder what kind of mirror they are looking in.

[RockRose]

AMEN,  Mayflowers!!  Why do fat girls wear tight hip huggers and show off their muffin top bellies?

Here's a youtube for you - very cute girl with a little M T,  but usually they look just gross and flabby.    

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DyO-z_7Ip9c

[mayflowers]

Everyone looks at attractive or unique people.  I am very visual and constantly look at people - men, women, young, old, doesn't matter.   People are intersting.  

I always check out what people are wearing, especially the teenages these days - both boys and girls.  Why do fat girls wear tops showing their fat stomachs?  I can't figure that one out.  Do these people not have mirrors????!!!!!  

In any case, what your husband is doing sounds perverted.

[RockRose]

It's totally normal that men find beautiful teenage girls attractive - men are visual.

But that he stares at them in such an obvious way that you NOTICE,  it crass and immature and stupid and might get him into trouble some day.  He's 28.  By this time he should have learned how to look discretely and not stare like a dog.