did he cheat on me

[mysticov]

My husband left the other night for pack of smokes didn't get in till 6 in morning,last night we where getting ready to fool around and I started sucking him I noticed the texture was rough around head he was not into it as usual, I asked him he said he got it zipped up in zipper I'm lost and confused my gut says he cheated do u think he did

[Jinx_777]

no explanation from him?????

next time the locks on the door are changed and there would be no explanation from me.

to keep yourself safe, do not have unprotected sex, get checked for any STD's.  even if he is out using drugs, that sometimes means having unprotected sex with less than desirable people.  

[CeCe1975]

Something for sure is going on. Confront him and put your mind at rest of what all he could be doing.

[jleeflcntrygrl]

Cheating or drugs. I'm a recovering addict so this is exactly how I would act before I got clean.

[Londres70]

Obviously, there is something going on here and you need to have a serious talk with your husband.  

Cheating or not cheating........this behavior is not appropriate.

[Vance2335]

If I went out and didn't come back until the morning my wife would be flipping out on me. Something is not right about this guy and he needs to tell you where he was for hours.

[nursegirl6572]

Ditto specialmom 100%!!  There's definitely a problem, whether it be cheating, drugs, or like sm said, he's just checked out of the relationship.  Any which way, it needs to be addressed for sure.

Don't accept being treated that way, with him disappearing without so much as an explanation.  That's just unacceptable behavior.

Best of luck to you.

[specialmom]

Well, that is a problem.  No explanation for why?  

I think that his disappearing for hours on end and all night is a pretty huge problem you have to get to the bottom of.  That doesn't look good.  Even if he isn't cheating --------  he's checked out of this relationship.  You two need to talk!  good luck

[mysticov]

He didn't have one but he been staying away from home a lot lately and all night

[specialmom]

Hi there.  Well, no one here would know.  I don't know if the 'texture' of his penis really is an indicator.  Is it very out of character for him to not be in the mood?  What was his explanation for being gone all night when running a quick errand?