dont know anymore

[MissJessGolden]

I just dont know if I want to marry my son's dad anymore. I mean I love him more than words could express but for the past 1 1/2 weeks the women in his family have been rude and disrespectful to me. I am really just tired of it. I dont even want his family around my son because of it. I ignore it and it is still getting worse. I just dont know anymore. It hurts to think about not wanting to be with him anymore but it would be better for me and my son. The drama is just so petty and rediculous.

[MissJessGolden]

I honwstly just want to disappear again.

[MissJessGolden]

The only reason why it started is because he is in jail for not letting a transet security officer check is pass. So he is not around to act as a buffer so I became a target. They have lied to him when he has tried to talk to them. Its really tough on me and has raised my stress levels putting me at a higher risk of preterm labor than I was.

[turkey_club_0214]

Both of my sister went through the same thing. One simply just said: if this doesn't change we can't get married. This is my son and if u don't do something about this I don't want them around the baby". It's been a year since my little niece has seen her grandparents and aunts (from dad's side) they don't care at all and they rather be rude to her than see the baby (the baby is 3 years old).things startes to get physical after a while. Your fiance needs to demand respect and give them an ultimatum. If they are rude now it will not change. Trust me! Besides, you don't want your baby to be surrounded by so much negativity.

[DreadPirateDavi]

You're marrying him, not his family. My SO's family drives us up the wall with their drama, so we're moving as far from them as possible after we have our baby. I will never deprive his parents of their grandchildren, but the distance will mean short, infrequent visits.
Have you spoken to your man about your concerns? Don't let his family ruin your happiness.

[walral81]

Sorry to hear that dear. I agree, he is allowing his family to come in the middle of his. He shouldn't allow his family to disrespect the mother of his son. Let him know how u feel love. Hope it works out for you and your son.

[Nneanny]

Have you talked to him? U need to open up to him n let him know how u feel.if he really loves u as u do he will handle d situation verywell.good luck

[hersheyma]

Sounds like he need to make some serious changes before he loses his family...hope it works out for ya