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ex of 6 years wants to come back

y would ex try to come back after 6 years. I was with this guy for about 8mnths 6 yeArs ago  I been with my current bf for 5 years and my ex knows this and all of a sudden he's decided to start looking for me got my number somehow and he's even gone to my job we didn't end in bad terms but it's so awkward I've told him past is past but he won't back of saying that the decision he made 6 years ago has been haunting him my answer well to bad he broke up with me how do I get him of my back what the hell did he expect after all this time
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Thank you ladies for all the comments
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I think the ladies have given really excellent advice here.  good luck to you
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I don't blame you.  Hey, you told him no and if he still wants to be persistent then you have no other choice.  
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I have made it really clear to him that there will never ever ever be anything I do not believe in friendships after a break up i didnt want to to the legal way but guess I'll have too I don't want my bf to get in trouble with the law for hurting him
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I don't think this is really all that uncommon,  Ale8a.  This is the kind of time frame where young men (if he's 24 like you are) have regrets about a high school love.  I wonder what's going on in his life right now that's made him want to retreat and recreate something long gone.

I agree with the others,  though,  and suggest you be very clear that you're not interested by very matter of factly telling him to not contact you again,  or you'll have to consider legal action.  
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Will agree with Teko.  

This sounds a tad "creepy."  
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Tell him to back off or you will let your current one know and if that isnt enuff you will get a restraining order. That should convince him. If you got a good thing going with the current then dont give this guy the time of day. An ex is an ex for a reason.
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