ok. i see lots of beautiful girls around me and i am thinking i want one of them as my girlfriend. answers such as "you should not care beauty instead of personality " won't be received, because i only like hot girls. any advice what to do about that?
If you want a beautiful girlfriend, work on yourself so you are charming enough to attract one. Become a nice person (not shallow). Learn to care about what is in her mind and what matters to her, not because "you should not care beauty instead of personality" but because if you only care about her appearance, she will find you superficial and boring and you won't be able to hold her interest for long. Also, if you want a girlfriend whose beauty gives her many choices of who her boyfriend will be, get the highest status job you can and work hard. Women like to be treated well, and part of that is taking her out without expecting her to pay the bill.
What do you have to offer her? If you're just an average looking guy with a blah life and a boring job that has no potential then you're not going to attract anybody. If you want someone you would rate a 10 then you also have to be at that level yourself. So like Annie said, if you're not, then work on getting to that level first yourself and then worry about finding the girl.
Hello. I personally think you can want any woman you want to. If you can get a model to be interested in you, more power to you. However, it seems that you are writing to us because you are not having much success attracting these hot girls you desire. That's the problem. Hot girls want hot guys or at least a guy that offers them something pretty valuable in exchange for their hotness. I don't care if you value looks over other attributes. That's your thing. But if it isn't realistic for you, you're going to have to consider your options. If these beautiful and hot women generally don't want you---- unless you want to be alone, you'll have to work on your expectations. Or maybe I have it wrong and these hot babes are all over you. :>) good luck
You know, I really didn't answer your question though. HOW. Well, you work on you so that you are more attractive to them. Get really educated so you have a very successful, lucrative career. You work out and stay fit, buy fashionable clothing, stay well groomed, have plastic surgery if you need it to be model like yourself. Read current events so that you can have great conversation. Play sports, women like that. Have great friends so that you look part of an attractive group. Be loving and kind. Make sure you are very funny as women like to laugh. You have to be the whole package to attract it. good luck
I can't tell if this is a troll post, but I suspect it isn't.
Are you really 24 years old and a physicist as is stated in your profile? I actually suspect that's true, too.
Here's how you get a hot girl, in your situation, honestly. Amass a lot of money, and buy a lake house and a boat and be very free with your spending on nights out, gifts, etc. You will be able to have a series of short term relationships with hot girls.
Well, considering you're not intending to love "her", just her physical appearance, it's unlikely you'll be able to get a girl who loves YOU, and not your money or other status.
There are women who are felons who are being released on parole who are beautiful, and who might be interested in a relationship for awhile, and there are women from foreign countries who are interested in citizenship.
There are also desperate women with several children and no job skills at all who might be interested in being supported.
You are asking the impossible. You are wanting a woman - with no other constraints except she be model gorgeous - and you are requiring that she love you for "you". The dating world doesn't work that way, curiosity.
Hi, I think we've all tried to answer your question but really, there is no answer. How is anyone to know why someone who doesn't attract the girls he really wants (hotter girls apparently than he gets) has that situation. I don't know what is not attracting better looking women to you. No one will know that answer. But I'm sure we all wish you the best in your search. good luck
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