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how to get a beautiful girlfriend?
ok. i see lots of beautiful girls around me and i am thinking i want one of them as my girlfriend. answers such as "you should not care beauty instead of personality "  won't be received, because i only like hot girls. any advice what to do about that?
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134578 tn?1463413330
If you want a beautiful girlfriend, work on yourself so you are charming enough to attract one.  Become a nice person (not shallow).  Learn to care about what is in her mind and what matters to her, not because "you should not care beauty instead of personality" but because if you only care about her appearance, she will find you superficial and boring and you won't be able to hold her interest for long.  Also, if you want a girlfriend whose beauty gives her many choices of who her boyfriend will be, get the highest status job you can and work hard.  Women like to be treated well, and part of that is taking her out without expecting her to pay the bill.  
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ok. i am more into aesthetics. what is wrong with that? i am not superficial. i find beauty attractive on the deeper level. like i have good things in my heart such as romantic feelings.
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What do you have to offer her? If you're just an average looking guy with a blah life and a boring job that has no potential then you're not going to attract anybody. If you want someone you would rate a 10 then you also have to be at that level yourself. So like Annie said, if you're not, then work on getting to that level first yourself and then worry about finding the girl.
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how about outer of my league?
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i have my requests what i want in my second half. like she has to be a model looking. why you deny my desires? why you think it is not achievable?
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Hello.  I personally think you can want any woman you want to.  If you can get a model to be interested in you, more power to you.  However, it seems that you are writing to us because you are not having much success attracting these hot girls you desire.  That's the problem.  Hot girls want hot guys or at least a guy that offers them something pretty valuable in exchange for their hotness.  I don't care if you value looks over other attributes.  That's your thing. But if it isn't realistic for you, you're going to have to consider your options.  If these beautiful and hot women generally don't want you----  unless you want to be alone, you'll have to work on your expectations.  Or maybe I have it wrong and these hot babes are all over you.  :>)  good luck
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i write this question, if it is the way or because to know how to get a hot girlfriend not "being their level" advice.
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You know, I really didn't answer your question though.  HOW.  Well, you work on you so that you are more attractive to them.  Get really educated so you have a very successful, lucrative career.  You work out and stay fit, buy fashionable clothing, stay well groomed, have plastic surgery if you need it to be model like yourself.  Read current events so that you can have great conversation.  Play sports, women like that.  Have great friends so that you look part of an attractive group.  Be loving and kind.  Make sure you are very funny as women like to laugh.  You have to be the whole package to attract it.  good luck
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i do not need model like myself. i need a hot model girlfriend. i like the way i am, but i want a model girlfriend.
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outer of my league not in my leage. i won't like girls if they are no way hotter than me.
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13167 tn?1327197724
I can't tell if this is a troll post,  but I suspect it isn't.

Are you really 24 years old and a physicist as is stated in your profile?  I actually suspect that's true,  too.  

Here's how you get a hot girl,  in your situation,  honestly.  Amass a lot of money,  and buy a lake house and a boat and be very free with your spending on nights out,  gifts,  etc.    You will be able to have a series of short term relationships with hot girls.

I'm being completely honest.
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i am turning 25 and i am finishing my masters. i will do my phd
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13167 tn?1327197724
Or,  you can outright pay for her by going to an "escort service" and asking for a long term escort.  In places where it's legal.  
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i am asking how to get love from a hot girl. a hot girlfriend who will love ME. not money. even i do not have money how to get a hot girlfriend?
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Well,  considering you're not intending to love "her",  just her physical appearance,  it's unlikely you'll be able to get a girl who loves YOU,  and not your money or other status.

There are women who are felons who are being released on parole who are beautiful,  and  who might be interested in a relationship for awhile,  and there are women from foreign countries who are interested in citizenship.  

There are also desperate women with several children and no job skills at all who might be interested in being supported.  

You are asking the impossible.  You are wanting a woman - with no other constraints except she be model gorgeous - and you are requiring that she love you for "you".  The dating world doesn't work that way,  curiosity.
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i am asking i will give all kinds of personality traits girls like, instead i will get a hot model girlfriend who will love me and give me attention very much. how does the dating world work?
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Otherwise,  there are many,  many sweet and charming girls who would possibly grow to love you for YOU,  but don't expect them to be model gorgeous.  

At this point,  you have no money,  you are seriously lacking in social savvy,  and apparently your description of yourself leads me to believe you aren't more physically attractive than average.  
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ok. i am average, but i want the way outer of my league girlfriend.
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Hi, I think we've all tried to answer your question but really, there is no answer.  How is anyone to know why someone who doesn't attract the girls he really wants (hotter girls apparently than he gets) has that situation.  I don't know what is not attracting better looking women to you.  No one will know that answer.  But I'm sure we all wish you the best in your search.  good luck
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You've been given GREAT ADVICE here. We do all wish you the very best in your search. If you find a way to make it happen, please come back and let us know how you did it.? Happy trails.
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