husband is cheating

[ioanawillie]

I m 25 weekd pregnent and my husband change so much in the last 3 months  .last night he was sleaping and he recive a what up mess from a boy name riky but as photo head his ex girlfriend .the text say to meet here on saterday .I woke him up and I start to ask him and he say they never meet and they took some time .I ask him long time a go not to do this because it hurts me...and then I right to her pretending I was him and she say they have not meet...and is nothing wrong in seen each other ...I need some one to took to...m I crazy? I m not good for him anymore? Apparently is my foolt and he is not tooking to me....I feel like...I need help

[Danicaantle]

I also would be very concerned with getting stds. I personally would go and get tested again. It could be very harmful to your baby and if he cheated once there's no telling with who else he cheated and what they might have.

[turkey_club_0214]

Totally agree!! Men who cheat are a waste of time. I love my husband and don't see myself with someone else but if he dares to cheat, without hesitating I'm gone. Marriage is a serious thing and if the guy can't contain himself then he is not worth it. Blaming u and playing the victim card is childish. He won't admit he did wrong because men are like that.

[m_r_p]

April13414, where do you get your facts?  90% of men cheat on their wives during pregnancy? I have a hard time believing that's true.  Also cheating is not okay.  You shouldn't have to put up with that disrespectful crap.

[ioanawillie]

Thank mom's. ..I will follow my hart .I have to think of my baby not of my self and if he dont wont me then fain. ..I dont need some one to hurt me..I have more important thinks to do

[mommabear2015]

I agree! Not every husband cheats on their wife when she is pregnant and if he does it's not something to brush aside that breaks a vow and is disrespectful.  Just bc someone wants to stay with a cheating loser doesn't mean this lady should!  Any. Woman with self respect would leave.

[nicolechavez]

Umm april nof the best advice...its dosnt matter if shes pregnant or not.its not ok for him to cheat....she said he always has to have another woman.hun if I was u I wouldnt deal with it....follow your heart..you know this isnt right...this is your husband the man youve chosen as your life partner and its nit ok for him to disrespect you in such a way...

[Staci_Day]

Umm I would leave him! Unless he swears he's NEVER going to do it again! That's your husband! He's not supposed to cheat on you!!!!!!!! If he's not happy with you then he needs to tell you.... not cheat.

[ioanawillie]

I m mut...I cant say anything. ..I think in may case is my foolt. ..but then again. ..we are victim. ..I wish they knew what we are doing for them...we giv them live..

[kmsshowout]

Its not your fault yes i no it hurts.. I'm 14 weeks i just lost my father and the man whi said he loves me the father of my child has been talking ti his ex.. he just left this morning saying he was going to his moms, then out with the guys.. he upload a picture of him at a resturant.. and he hasnt been answering his phone all day..

[ioanawillie]

And I delet here and block here...but guess what. ..I just meet her in the supermarket

[ioanawillie]

I m will never be good for himhe will always need some one alce. ..he is not how I thought he is

[April13414]

Take it easy girl...its not ur fault. The fact is 90% husbands cheat their wives while they are pregnant. So u need to relax and tell ue self ur husband loves u. You have to ignore few things sometime. Show ur love to ur husband coz only that will bring him bk. If u will get angry at d moment u will loose. Goodluck dear.

[hersheyma]

Why would he get mad and stop talking to you...dont let him flip the script...he need to change his number