i NEED SOME HELP PLEASE iM CONFUSED

[jasmin_mom]

me and my fiance have been together a yr...well pretty much he has been sending messages to his ex girl friends sister bout if he saw a hot chick at the gay parade that he will get all depressed and remember she likes chicks..well pretty much he has been putting off our wedding with different excuses oh i gotta talk to this person ohh i gotta talk to that person....well im pregnant and he refuses to go to the appointments and dont even wanna touch my stomach..lately he hasnt been wanting to have sex IDK why IDK what to do anymore..im scared all i wanna do is cry cuz my hormones are going crazy..all we have been doing is arguing..i have been wanting to not go to be at night i just wanna curl up in a ball on the couch and sleep cuz its been confusing for me..what can i do to make this work out right like it should be???????? PLEASE SOMEONE HELP..

[jo929]

The big red flag is that he keeps putting off the wedding, it would appear that he has changed his mind, and is not ready to settle down.  luick  jo

[thelittlethings]

It seems he still has feeling for his ex.  And if that's the case there may be no point in trying to make it work.  It doesn't seem as if he is interested in the relationship like he should be.  The best thing you can do is sit him down and be totally honest.  Tell him exactly how you feel about these things he's doing that he shouldn't be.  Ask him for the true reasons he is putting off the wedding because you think there is a motive behind it.  Ask him why he still talks to his ex's sister and why he still talks about his ex.  You are going to have to be open and honest with each other if you want to fix it.  Where he keeps lying to you it doesn't seem he is willing to do that though, so he may not be willing to make the relastionship work.
I'm sorry.  I hope it all works out for you.  and even if it doesn't work out between the two of you you'll figure it out.  Good luck!!

[ckeats86]

my dear the first thing you need to do is sit down and talk to him about all of these things that you are feeling...and then ask him what he feels...you both need to figure out what you want and if are both on separate pages (which it seems like you are)  then you need to decide what is better for you and your baby