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i am soooooooooo not getting along with my child's father 37 weeks
We have broken up at least 7 times during this pregnancy.. not to mention I find out he was cheating with me and I clearly was the other woman.. and another he had another girlfriend... sometime during the pregnancy we tried to work things out.. and he lost his job... then I lost mine then he left me for good.. ugh this sounds like a soap opera but we was just talkin marriage like a month ago and today he tells me can I have sex (with someone else) so I can hurry up a fond have the baby... I can't really talk to anyone about this cause I'm so shame.. I really need some support cause I'm clearly not getting any and it's stressful enough my first child's father hasn't seen him since birth.. and he's 2...
I am about to have my third. 1st baby divorced his dad ( he was abusive and I was miserable, doesn't see my son) , 2nd was a fling ( Bc when I told him I was preg he told me he was married!! Was shocked also doesn't see my son.) 3rd on the way, married to the love of my life. No it is not ideal, or how I was raised either, but u do the best u can to keep ur kids happy and safe and trust better will come along.
I really thank you guys he is definitely making me miserable... The thought of having 2 kids with different fathers hurts my soul and im not with either of them geesh I was not raised like this.. These darn hormones tho..
No one can convince u to leave, but take advice from those on the outside looking in. They are the ones with the clear head. Not u! Especially with your pregnancy hormones. Have another child without a daddy isn't ideal but the situation u are in, makes u miserable and will make u are miserable mommy, do your kids deserve that?! No!!! I was divorced when I got preg with my second, both guys were pos. I was single a few yrs, but then found my husband who adores the ground I walk on, and my boys and now we have a little girl on the way! No what u are worth and do not settle!!! If u are miserable and being mistreated, it's ur fault for not leaving! And ur fault for exposing ur babies to that. Leave and fins your happiness! !
Sounds like you're dating a looser. Why bother? It's been wrong since the begining and after that comment you think he's taking you serious? Its wrong. who wants to be with a cheater anyway? And the minute you found out you were one of the other women you should of ended it. Hes not gonna change sounds like, and he seems like he likes to do that. You're better off with your friends and family and getting used to the idea of him not being there for you. You'll probably be better off at the end. Find someone who loves and cherish you! It's ***** to be lonely, but in your case you'll probably be happy and worry free just with your babies...
Then il have another son without a father.. shouldn't I take that into consideration? Lord I just don't have it in me to just say forget it..im too sweet and it's a girt and a curse
If you cant reason with him bump it don't cut him off completely from the baby but from you yes you can do Better then that n for your baby you don't need the stress n the cheating i don't do I went crazy when i found out my ex husband cheated so i don't need you zapping out just keep a safe distance you can love him from a distance
I know what your feeling. I am 9 weeks along and single again. The father of my child said really nasty things to me and left 3 days after I had a positive hpt. Low and behold for the last 4 weeks he has been trying to contact me and wants to work things out. The amount of texts got so bad that yesterday i made a report to police dept. and he was instructed not to have any contact. My advice is let him go, you deserve to be happy. If you do not have support from family maybe find a mommies group or local community organization that helps women through situations. Just being able to talk about it will help relieve some stress. Just hang in there and take one day at a time.
My thing is I have too much hope and I feel like I would be wrong to cut him off completely but he definitely deserves it.. it's his first child and he excited about it but has been treating me like ****.. I feel like I'm going through post pardom already... He has played with my feelings the whole pregnancy... and whenever he gets mad he will say "if it's his baby" I really don't want to hate anyone but he's coming really close to it
Omg. I'm so sorry. I think u need to cut ties completely and do this on your own. The nerve to have u a side chick, and to then ask to sleep with other people.. I would lose it! Sounds like if u were to marry him cheating would keep happening. No your worth! Find a man u who lives for u and ur babies.
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