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in need of advise

When i was three months pregnant i told the father of my baby he didnt have to worry about being a father. Im five months now and after speaking with his mom he thinks hes not the father.. I have yet to speak to him in over two months and i dont know how to go about telling him cause last time he tried to kill himself. Advise is welcomed at the point
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Thanks everyone i know i have a lot to consider and yalls advise helps a lot
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3060903 tn?1398565123
I agree 100% with GigBella as well. Be good to yourself and don't let anyone take away the love you're feeling within. God bless you both.
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^^ I agree 100% ^^
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You need to focus on yourself and your child. If his mother is cool and wants to be involved then great.  But leave that unstable boy alone. If thinking your pregnant stresses him to the point that hes actively suicidal then u don't need to be around him. You dont know what he may do to you or himself. Take his mother's advice. She knows her son.He probably has emotional issues u don't know about. Hopefully he'll come around when the baby is born. If not get paternity test & child support order.
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Thanks really makes me feel better i thought i was being dramatically pregnant,.
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Tell him that hes the dad and to take responsibility and quit acting stupid or you'll have him committed. Then tell him if he really thinks hes setting a good example for his kid later on in life ... when he askes wheres my dad and u say oh well i had to let him be by himself because he couldn't handle what it means to be a responsible dad and was being selfish and kept trying to kill him self....
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8367118 tn?1442605420
Tell him he has the right to know. And mom's are mom's. Theyre overprotective, just keep calm and be friendly on your approach When,you see him and,just let the bomb out on him. :)?
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Rn wasnt a good time to tell him**
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We both play college sports him baseball and me softball.. Ive talked to my coach and hes letting me keep my scholarship, ive kept my pregnancy a secret until i found out i could keep my scholarship so now everyone knows im pregnant and hes clueless i asked his mom how i should tell him and she said rn is not a good time so im really stressing
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8367118 tn?1442605420
Wow he needs professional help. Idk what's up wth him but damn. I seriously have no piece of advice u.u
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8856671 tn?1404143983
Awwwww ok I understand now.
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So he tried to kil himself becauee your pregnant damn girl just talk to him
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8924846 tn?1410572901
I could see how that could confuse him, try and talk to him about it and explain
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Yes hes the father.. I just told him that so he would stop trying to kill himself
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No but i did say he didnt have to worry about being a father so im assuming he took it as he wasnt the father
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So is he the father or not becaue ir seemed like you confused him ....wow you just have a dilema in your hands
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To be honest idk hes 22 and hes acting like hes 14 having a child..
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8856671 tn?1404143983
Have you been sith anyone else?
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8367118 tn?1442605420
Why did he try kill himself? O.o
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