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is she lying about being pregnant
So I am amidst of every man’s worst nightmare and wanted to see what people thought if she is or is not pregnant. I am in a constant state of anxiety and don’t really know what to do
So I broke up with my gf at the time who cheated on me. So I deceided to go slam city, and wasn’t always smart about it. Basically got myself in the situation every idiot does when not always using condoms. So I was hooking up with this chick form work which thought I could trust her. She asked to be in a relationship and I said no. so I go back to my hometown for an interview for a job which I got and work at now. I get home and get a Snapchat with a positive preg test. Didn’t think much of it and it hit me. IM ******. So we agreed to do the abortion route. She was going to do the natural herb **** to make this work. So all the signs of a miscarriage are there (bleeding and tissue passing, she even sent pics so im sure its legit), we go to the abortion clinic I pay for it and doc said she had a miscarriage. So I was trying to be a good guy and take care of her but she became a ***** so I took her home. She went to the hospital later for the bleeding and states she had to have a d&c and all that stuff. So she was pissed cause I thought she was discharged and was fine apparently she had to go back in. she found out I went out that next day which was cinco de mayo and was pisssed that I didn’t show up to the hospital. She was mad calling me a ****** person and threatening to ruin mylife so I didn’t go. Later she says she was still pregnant about a week later, so of course I think im back knee deep in this crap and when I asked what the hospital did she was slow to answer. Not sure if she was lying about this and the place said she had an incomplete abortion. I wanted to be supportive of her going through this so I still talk to her and I apologize. About a week later she had to follow up with her obgyn and needed paperwork so she said she went back to the clinic to get paperwork from them and take the pill. She plays up that she did and it was this long ordeal of me taking care of her for 2 days cause it’s a two part pill. She was a total ***** the whole time and yelled at me how I wasn’t cuddling with her and nicer to her which I thought I was extremely nice to her. Then I kinda got frustrated and told her off. She then told me karma is a ***** and she lied about taking the pill. Then she finally said she took the first one and had to go home to take the second. So I took her to dinner and to home to take the second. I never saw her take it though I tried to stay nice to her cause I thought she did this but im skeptical cause she was acting weird. I see paper work form the abortion clinic for the miscarriage but that’s it. A couple days later she admits to not taking the pill and keeps this moving with anxiety. Again we start from square one. She then texts me later saying she had a miscarriage again at the obgyn. She sends ultra sound pics and how the doc talked about her herself having one. At this point im skeptical as usual. She then says shes still pregnant and tries to get me to buy the abortion pill online. When I was about to order it she calls me again saying I feel bad and I need to tell you something in person. So she says she will pee on a stick for me to prove it. She does it and its negative. Then trys to stay over but I say I have to go I have plans with friends before I leave and gets mad. So couple days go by and im about to move from the state. Before I left she begged to see me one last time. So I see her and she was a ***** again so I leave. Then she texts me “expect a call from the metro soon” (the police) soon. So I block her on everything. She then blows my phone up form her sisters phone before I leave non stop the same day to see me again. It got to the point I finally gave in but only met her in a public place cause im sketched out. It was chill but after I left and on my why with the uhaul she says she used fake **** and is still pregnant and it will all work out. She says she lied cause she wanted to satisify everyone and not **** anyone off. I talk to her a day later and she says she hasn’t had a miscarriage but needs a d&c (surgical abortion) from her doc casue she has an ovarian mass. So finally she says she would go and had it done. I try to be supportive and talk to her on the phone through out. She calls high as hell from the surgery wanted to talk about it. Then about 2 weeks later she calls and says she lied and it was for a biopsy and she lied again. I kept asking those two weeks cause I cant trust a word out of this girls mouth cause she kept saying she was nauseous constantly and slow to answer me sometimes. (I kinda felt like I got a little crazy from this) She was mad I didn’t talk to her much after cause I was busy with my new job and family. She says she will talk to me in 6 months for child support. Now I have my old friends at work seeing her and they say she doesn’t seem to be pregnant and seems fine. And she sent a snap of the discharge paperwork with her name and it talks about greeving after and when to conceive again. I cut her off completely. My roommate and my friends doubt shes pregnant and will see if they can get more.
Anyone have any ideas what to do here? What the chance shes still pregnant? Has anyone gone thought this before. I have heard some crazy stories like this possibly about this chick.
I left a lot of details out of this story but kinda the general story
So I broke up with my gf at the time who cheated on me. So I deceided to go slam city, and wasn’t always smart about it. Basically got myself in the situation every idiot does when not always using condoms. So I was hooking up with this chick form work which thought I could trust her. She asked to be in a relationship and I said no. so I go back to my hometown for an interview for a job which I got and work at now. I get home and get a Snapchat with a positive preg test. Didn’t think much of it and it hit me. IM ******. So we agreed to do the abortion route. She was going to do the natural herb **** to make this work. So all the signs of a miscarriage are there (bleeding and tissue passing, she even sent pics so im sure its legit), we go to the abortion clinic I pay for it and doc said she had a miscarriage. So I was trying to be a good guy and take care of her but she became a ***** so I took her home. She went to the hospital later for the bleeding and states she had to have a d&c and all that stuff. So she was pissed cause I thought she was discharged and was fine apparently she had to go back in. she found out I went out that next day which was cinco de mayo and was pisssed that I didn’t show up to the hospital. She was mad calling me a ****** person and threatening to ruin mylife so I didn’t go. Later she says she was still pregnant about a week later, so of course I think im back knee deep in this crap and when I asked what the hospital did she was slow to answer. Not sure if she was lying about this and the place said she had an incomplete abortion. I wanted to be supportive of her going through this so I still talk to her and I apologize. About a week later she had to follow up with her obgyn and needed paperwork so she said she went back to the clinic to get paperwork from them and take the pill. She plays up that she did and it was this long ordeal of me taking care of her for 2 days cause it’s a two part pill. She was a total ***** the whole time and yelled at me how I wasn’t cuddling with her and nicer to her which I thought I was extremely nice to her. Then I kinda got frustrated and told her off. She then told me karma is a ***** and she lied about taking the pill. Then she finally said she took the first one and had to go home to take the second. So I took her to dinner and to home to take the second. I never saw her take it though I tried to stay nice to her cause I thought she did this but im skeptical cause she was acting weird. I see paper work form the abortion clinic for the miscarriage but that’s it. A couple days later she admits to not taking the pill and keeps this moving with anxiety. Again we start from square one. She then texts me later saying she had a miscarriage again at the obgyn. She sends ultra sound pics and how the doc talked about her herself having one. At this point im skeptical as usual. She then says shes still pregnant and tries to get me to buy the abortion pill online. When I was about to order it she calls me again saying I feel bad and I need to tell you something in person. So she says she will pee on a stick for me to prove it. She does it and its negative. Then trys to stay over but I say I have to go I have plans with friends before I leave and gets mad. So couple days go by and im about to move from the state. Before I left she begged to see me one last time. So I see her and she was a ***** again so I leave. Then she texts me “expect a call from the metro soon” (the police) soon. So I block her on everything. She then blows my phone up form her sisters phone before I leave non stop the same day to see me again. It got to the point I finally gave in but only met her in a public place cause im sketched out. It was chill but after I left and on my why with the uhaul she says she used fake **** and is still pregnant and it will all work out. She says she lied cause she wanted to satisify everyone and not **** anyone off. I talk to her a day later and she says she hasn’t had a miscarriage but needs a d&c (surgical abortion) from her doc casue she has an ovarian mass. So finally she says she would go and had it done. I try to be supportive and talk to her on the phone through out. She calls high as hell from the surgery wanted to talk about it. Then about 2 weeks later she calls and says she lied and it was for a biopsy and she lied again. I kept asking those two weeks cause I cant trust a word out of this girls mouth cause she kept saying she was nauseous constantly and slow to answer me sometimes. (I kinda felt like I got a little crazy from this) She was mad I didn’t talk to her much after cause I was busy with my new job and family. She says she will talk to me in 6 months for child support. Now I have my old friends at work seeing her and they say she doesn’t seem to be pregnant and seems fine. And she sent a snap of the discharge paperwork with her name and it talks about greeving after and when to conceive again. I cut her off completely. My roommate and my friends doubt shes pregnant and will see if they can get more.
Anyone have any ideas what to do here? What the chance shes still pregnant? Has anyone gone thought this before. I have heard some crazy stories like this possibly about this chick.
I left a lot of details out of this story but kinda the general story
I don't know why people bring their personal life into their workplace vs.
I don't know why people get bring their personal life into their workplace.
Typos....uggg!
I don't know why people get bring their personal life into their workplace.
Typos....uggg!
Well, just hope you have learned your lesson.
Don't sleep with just any woman who is willing and able as you may pay for it later and definitely DON'T sleep with the ones you WORK with. I don't know why people get bring their personal life into their workplace.
CUT her off and just don't respond.
You were foolish, but I don't think you need therapy...........she definitely does though.
Don't sleep with just any woman who is willing and able as you may pay for it later and definitely DON'T sleep with the ones you WORK with. I don't know why people get bring their personal life into their workplace.
CUT her off and just don't respond.
You were foolish, but I don't think you need therapy...........she definitely does though.
I asked her when she said she was still pregnant why were the tests negative she admitted to using her sisters urine.
You don't need counseling. You need to make a decision to only have sex with women you are in a relationship with, and who you know well enough to trust.
And then, only have unprotected sex when you get married and are purposely trying to get pregnant.
All life's lessons don't require counseling.
And then, only have unprotected sex when you get married and are purposely trying to get pregnant.
All life's lessons don't require counseling.
Thanks everyone. As I was writing this the situation become more apparent. Yeah she said she had to borrow some urine for work and came over to use it apparently. This situation still seems bizarre to me as well and still don't know how I feel about it. I will definitely need some counciling on this.
AND, if her sister went to the trouble of giving her pee (sounds like her sister is pregnant and somehow the test didn't work - maybe the urine was old?) then her sister also knows she's not pregnant.
She's not pregnant.
She's not pregnant.
Why did she use her sister's pee? If she did, she's not pregnant.
This whole thing is bizarre. I'm seeing images of boiled rabbits on the stove.
This whole thing is bizarre. I'm seeing images of boiled rabbits on the stove.
It seems pretty obvious based on what you've posted that she is full of it. This is the part where you change your number and your email and stop talking to her. She is clearly not going to stop harassing you yet for some reason you keep perpetuating the drama by responding. Block her from your life once and for all and be done with this. And always use condoms every time if you want to avoid this kind of nonsense in the future.
sorry I forgot to add she said she used her sisters pee. I didnt really watch her pee
Many weeks into her "pregnancy", you said this:
"So she says she will pee on a stick for me to prove it. She does it and its negative"
No, she's not pregnant. She's not pregnant, and I can't make sense of all the other stuff about D&Cs, cysts, OBs telling her she's had a miscarriage, etc.
And yes, men have gone through this before. If you watch this board, you'll see this comes up about once every two weeks.
The takeaway lesson? Don't have sex with women you don't know. Develop a relationship where you admire and respect and care about her before you send your little swimmers in there.
Or else you'll end up with a woman who is angry that you don't care about her after you've had sex. Because that's how women are made.
"So she says she will pee on a stick for me to prove it. She does it and its negative"
No, she's not pregnant. She's not pregnant, and I can't make sense of all the other stuff about D&Cs, cysts, OBs telling her she's had a miscarriage, etc.
And yes, men have gone through this before. If you watch this board, you'll see this comes up about once every two weeks.
The takeaway lesson? Don't have sex with women you don't know. Develop a relationship where you admire and respect and care about her before you send your little swimmers in there.
Or else you'll end up with a woman who is angry that you don't care about her after you've had sex. Because that's how women are made.
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