is this normal??

[molefreckle]

Ok so in my past relationships sex was ok and yes a needed thing.. I have been with my bf for a year now and I cant get enough sex... I want it all the time and crave it and think about it all the time... I never used to feel this way in the past.. My bf is a great lover and I feel a very strong connection when we have sex, it is all so different for me. We  have had sex everyday for the past year give or take about 4 days in that yr due to illness or something like that.. Is it normal to want sex all the time like I do.. sometimes I feel like I am a freak when I hear my friends talk about there sex life and they have it only like once or twice a week if they are lucky.. Our sex is not just slam bam thank you mamm.. we have sex for a long time and more than once a day.. I know some may think it is just because of the early stages of our relationship but I think not... with other relationships the fire burnt out in the bedroom like the 3rd month... so is this a normal thing?Some say it is the age.... mid 30's and women just peak!

[seattlemom2plus]

Then if the relationship supports you in all aspects I don't think you have anything to worry about, you get to simply enjoy yourself now :)

I think it's great when you get involved in a healthy relationship that you do have the opportunity to enjoy sexual intimacy with one another without guilt.  It can take some getting used to if you had other relationships that were not based on commitment or trust.  I don't care how many years it has been for me personally, I still have some good "wow" moments where I am just grateful for having a partner that is my best friend.

[molefreckle]

Yes.... there is so much more than just sex with him... he provides me with alot of emotional support ... my oldest son is in afgan and boy does he ever support me.. ( my bf) he is just perfect in all ways. Sex is just a perk to it all.... i am not used to it.. you know that saying if it is to good to be true it prob isnt.. he is perfect.. we had our moments early on but we are passed all that and have really done right by eachother...

[seattlemom2plus]

As long as you are both interacting with one another on a personal level and have an emotional bond as well then I think it is normal.  However when your relationship is based on sex, it is also good to evaluate what other joys the relationship brings to your life.  Do they also provide you with the emotional support you need? Always good things to look at for the long term scheme of a relationship.  Keep us posted.

[BluCrystal]

Wow, I'm jealous! :)  You should feel blessed that you have such a wonderful bond with your bf... when is the wedding date? LOL

[specialmom]

Normal is what is going on in your own life.  Who cares if your sex life is less or more active than other women.  Just enjoy it.  good luck