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its it me or my hormons making feel like thiz

Well my boyfriens its acting different we have been together in a confusing relationship .... I got together with him an live with him abot 4 years are relashinship has went on an off I left him about 3 time an went to live with my mom in thouse 4 years toghether I was taking birth control pills not to get pregnant cu z I wasent sure I wanted to  have a bby with him cuz we dint got along bery much an he just to get mad at me cus he wanted to have a bby he evean through away my pill one day...... so last year I got pregnat I dint knw how but it happen I was taking pill but I still got pregnant the mad thing is that I had a miscaraged at 3months it was painfull so I dint want to get pregnant again well then after that I broke up with him and left him cuz he always blam it on be that it was my falt an stuff I was in so much pain with my miscareaged that it was painful for hI'm treAting me like that so I left an went to live w my mom after that I changed my number and din talk to him about fo 6 months when he was trying to comunicate with me but I was hurt I dint wNt to talk to him never.... so then after we talk and well he would always bother me to got back with himan stuff for a long time the well it happen we had a sex an I got ppregnant thiz time yes I'm cumfusused of all of thiz dint expect this to happen n it di but I'm happy cuz I'm gana have my baby n taking care of my self I'm 17 weeks so knw that I'm pregnant he doesent even called me or even text me like he used to so is very comfusing cuz it make me think that he dosrnt want anything to do with the baby or with me or I dnt knw I'm just stress out and very hurt that he is ackting like this i talk to him an told him if he doesn't want anything to do w me an my bby its ok just to speak with the truth I ait gona beg him if he dosent want its fine ........ yes it makes me think that maby he has someone else in his life that his cheating on me an will it hurts to think that but the problem is that I dnt knw if is me thinking like that or mabe he is doing that or I dnt knw.........he told me he wants me to go live with him n stuff but I dnt knw what to do I'm cumfuss an I cry becuse this iz not the life I want my baby to se or live I don't knw is someone in here's knows how I'm feeling or can give me afvice its along story but I just feel this is the right place to let my feelings go ......so if somone read my story I want yo knw sensirly what u gurlz think thankyou for reading thiz....
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480448 tn?1426948538
Ditto specialmom's reply a million percent.
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I may have it wrong too with the difficulty in reading the post---  but it seems you chose to make a child with someone that you've had a long history of ups and downs with.  After he wasn't there for you after the miscarriage, you probably should have stayed away.  He showed you he doesn't react well to stress, is about shaming people which feels terrible, and isn't good at giving you the support you need.  You KNOW this about him.  So, why would he be different now?  

When we see how someone is, I'm not sure why we don't believe it.

It's not your hormones.  You made the decision to continue a sexual relationship with someone that you probably shouldn't have.  THAT is the problem.  

He may or may not be a great dad.   Time will tell.  But I would not continue to use energy on trying make him be someone you knew he wasn't when you became pregnant.  good luck
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Thx for your advice I rally apriciated...
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My eyes are bleeding.  Not sure how to respond since I only understood a very small portion of what you were trying to say.  I think you should just leave that guy alone, he doesn't seem committed to you or your child and you don't need the stress now.
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