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ladies i need advice..... please respond!

My boyfriend / babydaddy is 28. I'm 19.....
what does a man really want out of a woman?  Serious question plz respond. Details also.
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I think everyone wants someone who respects them and who is responsible, mature, and trustworthy.  Honesty is at the top of every man's list I know as well as the ability to communicate.  Understanding what each other's important things are in life and coming to agreement about goals is important.  

And all couples should laugh together, have lots of things in common in terms of likes and dislikes, have fun together.  

I think matching where two people are compatible is really an important aspect to long lasting relationships as well as matching values.

Good question hon.  I'm glad you asked it.  it's good to get people's opinions on things that help a relationship last. all people are different but there are universal things all good relationships have.  good luck
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That's such a broad question.  Your making an assumption that every man is the same and they all want the same.
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You might want to try asking this in the relationship forum instead of the 35yrs old and older pregnancy forum.
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Only he can answer that question.
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Definitely depends on the guy. My first husband basically wanted a housekeeper but didn't invest too much in our relationship. Having a tidy home, dinner on the table, and a presentable wife was very important.  Unfortunately that wasn't in line with what I thought was important in a relationship. My current husband and I are much more aligned. He sees communication, family time, and having fun together as extremely important and I agree so we tend to make the evenings and weekends centred around quality time together and with our son. We have a lot of projects together like the garden and renovating rather then drinking with friends or clubbing like we used to do before we got together. Just about talking and finding out whats important to both of you.
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You shouldn't be trying to or feel the need to change yourself to what you feel he wants. Either you are what he wants in a woman or your not and like above said every man is different. My fiance and I are extremely compatible because I was exactly what he was looking for to settle down with, and I don't have to feel insecure or worry because I can be myself and know that's why he is with me in the first place. And honestly,  in my opinion.. depending on the circumstances there probably isn't much for a 28 year old to see in a 19 year old and that's why your asking this
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It depends hon. I have two older brothers & they're wants varried from woman to woman. How long have guys been together? This is not against you at all, but it's hard to really know what a 28 year old man really wants and expects out of a 19 year old young woman. Not sure where you're from, but you're not even drinking age yet. Is he the kind that wants to control or "mold" you into what he wants?
I think you really need to have a serious talk with him & see where he's coming from & what he expects out of your relationship. Good luck!
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Honestly, ask him. Have a conversation about it. Then you can tell him what you want also.
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9440890 tn?1415878121
Depends on the guy. In general they want reliable, committed. But one guy might want a girl who loves to clean,  another might not care about that. Certain guys might like the idea of his lady staying home, having babies while another might want a woman to work outside the home and no kids. Or a mix of both. You have to figure out what you want and the kind of person you are.  If you find a man that's compatible with or you both find a lifestyle you can agree on than that's great.  Good luck!
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