major help

[westernbabe]

Idk what to do anymore I try so hard to keep my hubby happy but I guess I'm not doing enough :( we've almost been married a year & been through so much already. Have one son together who was 2months early. Anyways tonight hubby's phone goes off so I answer like always if he's asleep was unkown number so I ask who it is turns out it's his ex that he knows I can't stand. So at first I play it cool & just talk than she says what did u wanna talk about earlier. What?"

[Monika1985]

LoL. You actually believed the "hacked facebook" story? And if he's married to you and you just had his baby then there is no need for his EX to be calling. Hate to say it but he's cheating on you.

[Londres70]

I would have to agree with the above posters.  

Ok, he was somehow able to convince you about the FB situation, however, what is the explaination for the phone call or text from the ex that you can't stand?  

"This chick is a stalker and has been bugging him since b4 we got together"  I think she is no stalker, but somehow is in the background.

Just food for thought.  Don't be anyone's fool or naive.  As one of the above posters stated "Keep you eyes open wide."  

[westernbabe]

Also the time of the messeges between him & his ex would have to been a hacker bc we were playing a game with my family & everyone's phone was in anither room so ya I believe that story

[westernbabe]

No he wasn't able to get back on it & all the messages were still there I hacked it than deleted. And our son is a perfectly healthy one year old. & I will always have trust issues even if this didn't happen every relationship before this one except one relationship I've been cheated on & the one that I wasn't cheated on he was controlling. But I wanna make this one work bc I love him & for our sons sake my parents weren't together my whole life & now I don't even talk to my real dad cause he treated me diff from his other kids

[lucknlove1989]

I hate to say I agree with the 2 previous posts. If someone hacked his facebook why would they change his password??? Also was he able to get back on his facebook? If so then were all his messages erased? Something definitely seems fishy here...

[specialmom]

Yes, I would not believe this story so easily.  Sorry to say that.
I want to also comment that you have been married a year and already have one child and already trying for the second.  I'm sure with a premature child ( 2 months early)----  things are hard and I will tell you that issues from a premature birth can show up down the road.  These things can be very time consuming and expensive to deal with in order to help a child be as successful as they can be.  So my point in telling you this, is not to rush into having baby number two.  Take your time----  which I'd tell you even if you didn't have relationship issues.

Here is the deal----  something odd is going on.  It may not have progressed into an affair but he is attached in some way to another woman.  I would gather someone is fibbing to you.

Please be watchful.  Please put baby plans on hold.  Take care of YOURSELF and be in a strong position.  good luck

[RockRose]

I think you need to keep your eyes W I D E open,  westernbabe.

Really?  Someone hacked his facebook account,  and also this ex called to ask what he wanted to talk about.

(My guess is you must have been texting,  not talking or she wouldn't have said that to you.)

This goes in the "not believable" category to me.

[westernbabe]

Everything is all good someone hacked his Facebook & changed his password & this chick is a stalker & has been bugging him since b4 we got together lol we talked & everything is good ;) yay

[Londres70]

Sounds like he is hiding something unfortunately.

I would talk with him and see if he comes clean about everything.  

I would definitely make sure the relationship is solid before having another child with this man.  

[RainLover71]

Sounds like he has someone on the side,because the writings on the wall.There has to be trust in a relationship or there is nothing.He has to come clean and he has to be totally honest or the relationship won't work.He should be more committed to the relationship because you have a child together and he should be a man and not a player.This is wrong and it needs to be sorted.You both need to talk this through.All the best.

[westernbabe]

Find out they been talking for awhile & he changed Facebook password that he's trusted me with since b4 we eva started dating wth I think he's hiding something :( this really upset me bc we were trying for our second child but idk anymore idk what to do