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my babys father cheated on me i knew he was i ended up catching him he says its my fault
I don't know what to do I've Been with my baby's father five yrs I caught him cheating after I just had a baby....with a homewreaker that worked at his sons school ....IV been with him sense I was 15im 20 know but his son is hanndcapped I been taking care of that kid like he was mine he's only ten yrs your than me. He's like a big baby in a ten ye old body its sad but it his fault my heart is broken...I was to young to goout when I was fifthteen so I sat and was missarable stuck watching him well my boyfriend went out with friends ..I loved him so much I did what ever he said then after years of sitting waiting iturned 18 he gets dui I take care of his kid four months by my self...he comes out ask me to marry him I said yes guess what tho he still didn't take me out when I want just to b with him lovers nite out we couldn't he didn't trust his kid with noone so where ever we went kid was there I never got much attention. That I deserved I finally turn 19 two months later I'm pragnant I was happy he was happy but guess what ..I could take care of his kid nomore. I did want to loose my child for him he started been mean to me because of that okay we live in a single apartment too small he said we where gunna get bigger place so he's son can't hurt my baby ..son it extreml violant. He knows what's he's doing he I know because he acts bad with his dad good with me so he's kid ended up scratching my two month old digging his nail in her I put him off of her ...and was mad later that night she hurt him self falling ...my baby's dad tryed to say I did it. Then I started noticing text messages from the girl that worked at school missed calls I confront him he says shecare about son just checking up on him I'm just mad because he's so. Has some one who cares for him I say are u cheating on me if u r better stop before its to late. He says no denied it said she was a lesban and I new it was a ly on day we when to BBQ he left me and my baby to sleep there as he's done before this time I pop up on him open doors she's there in underwear run to bath room I could beleave my eyes I start whaleing on him I run to bath room beat her till cops came then got my stuff and left came back middle nite she was there next day she was there and I had court between me and him I grabbed his phone a bunch of texts to and from her he's says she was just babysitting but when I wanted to go out nobaby sitter ya right so I call her well he's trying to get back with me she was talking **** like that was her man I heard him vocienail she wanted to c him on Halloween. I make sure his her I send her are Halloween photos she gets pissed changes number I Chang his seekie so he's been popping up he loves me only me he only wants to b with me I try to fix us but he could of came after me when I left theater time and made her leave but he didn't I'm not sure what to do anymore I love him so much only man I ever loved. He rrally hurt me but hes the one whos suppost to bsupposition to b knew he choose her now he wants me back. I don't kblnow if I can't deal. With what happens I can't just forget. U do wantb the father of all my children I have my girl ..I don't want different baby daddy I want to b loved what should I do
And the ***** knew me seen me prego. Seen my baby all my **** was everywhere in my home picture of our family they didn't give a ****
He says she's just a baby sitter I said while of that's true y didn't u tell me y were u here sitting drink with her while she was in under wear while kid was asleep ...he trys to make me seem crazy like it never happen ..like I'm making it up. I love him so much when I see him I want to fall my nees get so. Weak and shaky trembling ...y do if feel this way after every thing he's done to me
I took off with him .....he come over pops over with out his kid trying to act like he gives a **** ..I told him too take me to court if he wants to she our daughter he hasn't... he thinks he can do what he feels
You aren't blaming this handicapped kid (his son) for his actions?
It is apparent this bf is OLDER than you and taking advantage of you dear. Exactly how old is your bf?
Your bf could have cheated with anyone he met at the grocery store, gas station, etc. Just happened she was at the school where his son went. The kid didn't tell him to cheat with this woman; he told himself to cheat. Put the blame where the blame is due.
"I took care of his son for years." Yes, you did, however, you were not obliged to do so (your free will) and you did it because you loved him. This didn't and doesn't garantee good behavior or anything in return from him. In my opinion, your bf took advantage of your naiveness being that you were only 15 when you all got together; too young in my opinion to be taking care of someone's handicapped child.
He has been irresponsible and reckless way before you caught him cheating on you.
You might "love him" but I think you should be loving yourself more and wanting better for you and your baby/child by moving on dear.
I was wondering where are/were your mother and father?
It is apparent this bf is OLDER than you and taking advantage of you dear. Exactly how old is your bf?
Your bf could have cheated with anyone he met at the grocery store, gas station, etc. Just happened she was at the school where his son went. The kid didn't tell him to cheat with this woman; he told himself to cheat. Put the blame where the blame is due.
"I took care of his son for years." Yes, you did, however, you were not obliged to do so (your free will) and you did it because you loved him. This didn't and doesn't garantee good behavior or anything in return from him. In my opinion, your bf took advantage of your naiveness being that you were only 15 when you all got together; too young in my opinion to be taking care of someone's handicapped child.
He has been irresponsible and reckless way before you caught him cheating on you.
You might "love him" but I think you should be loving yourself more and wanting better for you and your baby/child by moving on dear.
I was wondering where are/were your mother and father?
It's very unfortunate that you got pregnant while in this unhappy situation where you were with this guy who left you all the responsibility of looking after his handicapped son while his in and and out jail and doing as he pleases.
Unfortunately him cheating is only one of the problems here - I think you having a little baby with a violent older child around and this guy who is NOT good news and NOT giving you support (cheating on you is like the icing on the cake unfortunately) is a bigger problem. Would you be able to support yourself if you and your baby got out of there?
I'm sure you don't want to spend the rest of your life having to protect your baby in it's own home, getting no attention as you say from your boyfriend - and now having to worry of him cheating again?
You deserve better...
Unfortunately him cheating is only one of the problems here - I think you having a little baby with a violent older child around and this guy who is NOT good news and NOT giving you support (cheating on you is like the icing on the cake unfortunately) is a bigger problem. Would you be able to support yourself if you and your baby got out of there?
I'm sure you don't want to spend the rest of your life having to protect your baby in it's own home, getting no attention as you say from your boyfriend - and now having to worry of him cheating again?
You deserve better...
I love his stupid ***......and hate him at same time I took care of he's kids for years man ****** up life style cuz that kid and because that kid he met the *****
Move on the best way you can. Obviously he can't be trusted.
I wouldn't be so worry at this time about having different daddies to deal with because that is NOT the problem at hand now.
Move on and hopefully in time you will find someone trustworthy and loves you the way you should be loved.
Way too much drama going on here.
I wouldn't be so worry at this time about having different daddies to deal with because that is NOT the problem at hand now.
Move on and hopefully in time you will find someone trustworthy and loves you the way you should be loved.
Way too much drama going on here.
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