i know how u feel. i get sex once maybe twice a wk...my partner masturbates 2 porn...as sn as my back is turned hes at it...even if we are apart 4 a mere hlf hr...he doesnt even masturbate the a ,an does. he has sex wiv his pillows, he denies it but there r stains on his pillows...and because i hate it he tries 2 hide it by covering the pillow wiv a towel....i dont need 2 check his pillows and towels,,, i know he has done it...his body talk says it all...its in his eyes....he would rather watch me walk away than give up his precious beloved porn,,,,he will never change,,,im tired of feeling worthless, ugly, titless, and non perfect...he has broken my heart and destroyed my soul....porn 1st, me 2nd best....im now anorexic because of it...wen i find the strength i will leave him....its very hrd 2 deal wiv....but there is nothing u can do until he admits he has an addiction,,,,not likely 2 happen in my opinion....walk away b4 u end up like me....DEAD INSIDE....XX
If he is dissing you for his hand missy there is definately a problem and the question is not so much what you can or should do but is this jerk off even worth the second thought? Think about this... You can have a roommate instead of a boyfriend and buy a pal and you got a pretty good life without all the feelings of rejection and the drama. In other words, what is this guy doing for you anyways that a regular girlfriend cant. In other words, he is not a boyfriend, lose him so you can find a real man is my advice.
I agree with cdm763. you can try watching the porn and act out what they do in the movies if he's still not interested just leave him. It seems he's to be a porn addict if he would rather watch porn than have sex with u. He probably needs professional help.
i have tried the watching porn tiogether that didnt really help but i will definatly try your other suggestion. thanks.