my husband lies

[nadster352]

i have caught my husband lying to me many times over really insignificant things.  All relate to a woman,  He swears its nothing but i can't seeem to understand why he would lie

[drifter0213]

love = trust+ communication+commitment          drifter0213

[LindaPinda49]

I am married to a liar...for 28 years.  I wish I had gotten out of this marriage a long time ago.  If your husband is lying to you about women, I can guarantee he is lying about other things as well.  Sadly this will not change.  People who lie, will continue to lie.  I t is a way of life.

[teko]

maybe he just wants to avoid a fight?

[Mytwags]

I have to agree.  If he lying about things related to another woman there something bigger.  If he wasn't lying about the other woman and there is just honest friendship, is that ok?  If it is ok does he know that.  good luck.

[longleggedfly]

The lying might be about insignificant things now... but it means he could probably lie to you about the 'big' things where you really need the honesty.

[babypooh]

That's a very good point, sixstringer; something to think about... Good luck.

[SixStringer]

If his lying relates to a woman, is it actually about "really insignificant things"?  

[babypooh]

Does he know that YOU know he lied? It's important that you talk about it with him and decide if he's going to respect your marriage enough and not lie to you. Good luck.