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orgasm?

To date Im 31 and have never orgasmed got to the stage were im very distressed over it, I simply dont know how, never felt comfortable masturbating but have started I can get my clitoris to contract through manipulation but have to stop after a while as it gets too sensitive which in return makes me feel even worse :( can you offer me any advice at all?
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136956 tn?1688675680
The easiest thing for me to orgasm is to think dirty or my boyfriend to talk dirty.  That brings it on quicker.  

Are you with someone who will give you oral sex for a while?  Someone who is thinking just about your needs?  That matters.  I never orgasmed by oral but my boyfriend is huge at pleasing me and that is how I orgasm now all the time.  
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1467985 tn?1289777446
has your dr been able to help you? Have you tried a vibrator? That would be my suggestions :-)
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