pls i need advice!!

Question

I'm  upset. My bf left his  instagram open  and this girl he use to talk to msg him saying call her and she left her number and I told him and said I dont have nothing to worry about that he wasnt gonna call her...so todayy  he was on instagram and he log out  and never log back in so I hacked his page and found he msg her tellin her to give her number in the msg and calling her baby...but he dontknow  iI know  and he wonder why I mad....what should I do??

Londres70 · Answer

Hon, why hang onto someone who can't be honest with you?  Telling you one thing and going behind your back doing something else?  It's apparent he is playing both of your girls.

If you have to hack his social network(s) to get the truth of the matter then I would say run and run fast from this guy.

Aracely1224 · Answer

Damn that really ***** omce I followed my bf I duped him their and then dont let yourself be strong girl you dont deserve to be worried if hes gonna give you somethimg if hes cheating on you and my bf use to be like thay now hes totally gives me access to his phone all the time and we live together so im nlt as jelouse as before or worried he talks to no girls and he gives me the respect I deserve. Some guys need to be left to realize what they jave amd come back running...

Tristen1haani2 · Answer

Forget about it and move on stop putting your nose in his phone its invasion of privicy if u don't trust him tell him stright up if u can't do that then leave him cause its not what a relationship is supposed to be.. Not trying to be rude but that's just my opinion

stephannieluvv · Answer

Have you attempted to call him?! Some men are just heartless & careless together and it isn't okay and than when woman like us stick around they think it is. You can only try and stick around for so long than it gets old & you'll definitely rethink it. I know I did and I'm glad I'm out of that crappy situation! It's better to be alone than to be in bad company always remember that , it hurts not but it can't hurt forever . U can change that :)

firstborn21 · Answer

Forget that what is he was goinng through your stuff and saw the same thing he aint got no bussiness talking to nobody eles .....

nellebaby24 · Answer

Ok I see it has escalated quickly from instagram to phone calls then him leaving. . Uh yeah confront his *** that is very unacceptable.

peytonarmani_ · Answer

Thanks I will...its just right before I was bout to talk to him  his friend number called the Fone and when I picked up it was a girl and when I ask who it is she ask to speak to a girl name Brittney ..I told her she had the wrong number and not too long after that his friend came knock on the door and  then he left and been gone ever since...

KaliBrooke · Answer

If you're in a relationship then there's no reason to hide things or keep things private. You're sharing your life with this person...that means there shouldn't be a problem knowing everything that goes on in it. I always look through my bf's phone..just like he could look through mine if he wanted. And if you're the type that let's your bf go out and talk to other girls..then ok that's what works for you..but it doesn't work like that for every relationship. I dislike when people pull the "trust" word out on others. I would definitely confront him..what he did is not ok..but again it all depends on what you will put up with and live with.

stephannieluvv · Answer

I'd confront him about it regardless of who's by your side at night or not that doesn't make it right & if there wasn't trust issues before there's gonna be some now ya know?! Do what your heart feels hun <3

turkey_club_0214 · Answer

I always say, once you have doubts about the guy DUMP HIM! Many times curiosity got over me and when you look, you find. Men will never admit they did wrong even if u show him the message. Do not waste your time, he is obviously not worth it. I am married and I made peace with my self before meeting my husband, I decided to be happy and not worry about stupid stuff like in my past relationships. I would never doubt him and I leave in peace :)

wife_and_mama2014 · Answer

Definitely talk to him. That's unacceptable.

mamma1020 · Answer

Yea for sure definitely understand where your coming from I'm just saying that is crossing the line when he said that to that girl...

ericatoday · Answer

Sometimes looking doesn't mean you don't have trust. I trust my bf of 4 years more than anyone. He's never given me a reason not to trust him. But I look at his phone all the time. I'm nosey. I'm so nosey that when my best friends phone goes off I look at it. I can't help it I'm curious. Just like I'm curious to what my bf is doing. He doesn't care I'll even bring up conversations in his texts to his friends and he'll tell me about it. He has full access to my stuff too. He doesn't care he know I'm nosey. But if a girl messaged him I'd probably be more curious to see what's going on. But if he called her baby I'd bring it up right away. I keep no emotion or thought from my bf ever even if it ends up being nothing.

nellebaby24 · Answer

I would confront to. My opinion is mine. I believe trust is broken once you cross the line by cheating. That's just me because men will be men

mamma1020 · Answer

Yea your right she should have trust but that was broken the minute he wrote another chick calling her baby just cause he there at night does that make it right to talk to other girls and flirt no it doesn't... I would confront him if I was you too girly you deserve to have and be respected

nellebaby24 · Answer

Why would you go through your man's stuff if you trust him just saying I don't go through my husband's stuff and he looks and talks to other girls but you gotta remember who is by your side at the end of the night.