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porn.. weird i know

So i see a lot of women on here saying they don't like their husbands or finances watching porn.. me and my boyfriend actually watch together, we have a pretty good relationship where he'll tell me he's watching it. So my question is why don't you guys like it ? Or are their any women here that don't mind ?
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esmeralda2015 thats true my bf loves every pärt of my body and he gets turned on more now that im pregnant aswell lol
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I trust my bf alot but ive been cheated on before but i think yh most men do watch it but some dont but ive watched it before and my bf didnt like me watching it now i dont watch itnd he doesnt watch it at tool
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My man doesn't like porn he says it's disgusting lol and a woman's body should be only for her man to see well that's his beliefs... He only loves my body you know when your man love your body hmm the way he touches you the way he looks at you says it all... I'm glad he doesn't like porn cause if he did I would be offended
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I don't mind it and my man and I talk about it and it's not that the women are more attractive than ourselves it's the arousal and the fantasy of it.  If our men wanted a girl like that the. They wouldn't be with us. I didn't want sex for a while in the middle of pregnancy and I sure as hell would be happy to know that my man was at home spankin it to porn if I wasn't giving it to him. Now I can't contain myself I want him every second of everyday!
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If they can watch põrn like seeing girls getting ****** and stuff and  what if i they see other girls on the street or whatever  and they think their hot and they might be tempted to do whatever and I dont like or want my bf watching it because i feel like im not what he wants and im not good enough and tbh theirs more good looking girls then me so like i feel insercure as it is but thats just me lol
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My fiance also watches it for new things to try so the sex isn't always the same. Naturally he can't keep his hands off me but the sex is so limited being that I am 33 weeks and can't quite do what we used to do. I watch porn to but on my own time because we dint like the sane stuff.
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My boyfriend and I watch porn together. We have always done it. I personally don't have a problem with him watching it when I'm not around either. Heck, I watch it by myself sometimes too.
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At first it sorta bothered me, just because I felt like he would rather have a girl like the ones he watches. But then I snapped out of it and realized he's a guy lol. Every guy watches porn, and most girls do too! We watch it together sometimes, which I never mind because in all honestly I like watching it too gets us both ready. Plus we try new positions this way. I don't see any harm in it. And I would rather he watch porn then cheat if I'm not in the mood
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Lol , me and my boyfriend have watched it together before and he also tells me when he's watching it just like I tell him when I'm watching it. I'm comfortable with it lol
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Mine is like 5% now so we watch it together so that we both get horny and want to have sex.. I'm 34 weeks btw
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Me & my hubby watch it together too. Idc if he watches it alone because his sex drive is higher & right now mines is non existent. But when I'm not pregnant Im usually the one asking to put it on versus him
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It doesnt really bother me I just feel like why do u have to watch that when u have me right here I felt like I wasnt good enough. Because don't get me wrong ive watched it a couple times while I was single but now that I have him I dont. I see your point id rather him watch porn then go cheat but I guess I feel like hes looking at those other girls thinking he wished I looked like that
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Porn only bothers me if I start noticing that he is having less sex with me. I have a high sex drive and I dont have anything against porn but I still want to get laid too ! Haha I think people with issues about it should try it together. If you nag them to stop .. they wont they will most likely start lieing about it which is worse then just accepting it
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It's just a personal preference for everyone. I personally don't like the feeling that my husband would watch it while I am in the same house as him, it's like he's picking porn over me... it feel secretive to me. It's natural for a woman who is married to not want her husband to look at that, it disrespectful to their marriage especially if it's done in secret.
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*go out
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My fiance watches porn and I don't mind since his sex drive is currently higher than mine. I personally feel it's the best substitute for lack of sex. I mean would you rather him home out and cheat or watch porn when you aren't up to having sex?
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