My boyfriend of almost 4 years has been dealing almost all this time with depression and insomnia resulting from a traumatic experience in his life, that still has some lingering real aspects with memories and his lawsuits against some people that were involved with this experience. Antidepressants have not helped him, and he is finding some solace from naturopathic treatments. He has been diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, and I have suggested that he re see a psychologist that we know, however, his finances (and mine at the moment) are extremely thin, so he has put this off saying not yet. Meanwhile, he just recently lost a job and so his self esteem is rock bottom, and he had to move back in with his parents as he can't afford rent. I had to do the same temporarily, but am focusing on getting my own apartment again asap. Needless to say, there is no sex, and even though he has the desire, his depression and our living situation is dampening the opportunity and his ability, when we get together on weekends. We do hug and kiss however. However, a family member told me that he is going almost consistently on the computer to chat with women since he lost the job. When I brought it up, he said he is not meeting anyone, or sleeping around, it is just something to do to escape the boredom and depression. I don't like it, and he knows it but he seems too depressed and too tired to be motivated by any healthier suggestions at the moment. Any ideas how to get him refocused on real life and the good things he has?