should i call him

[kris123]

So i meet this guy three weeks ago, saw each other three times, yes and had sex.  He couldn't preform, but he call as usually every night around 930 and we talked for over an hour at a time.  We talked all this week but he did not metion getting togeather.  He had told me be was testing me to see if I would call last week.  I called him one night this week and he did not answer, but he told me it was because his ex came over and was venting to him.  He said he didn't want to hear but did anyway.  He never called but told me about it the next day.  Should i email and ask him what he is doing tonight?  Should I call him after work?  It takes everything I have not to call or think of him.  In the past I have jumped right in and forgot my kids, but I can't do this again.  I have to stop the pattern and I don't want to drive this guy away, but what if I am just trying to escape into some one else's life because I hate mine right now.  What should i do let him contact me.  

[jo929]

Do not ever chase a man, let him chase you, also, go with a man awhile, before giving out sex,just wait for his call and play it cool  luck  jo

[kris123]

ha i emailed him and i shouldn't have lol chase me not him i know i know