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sick and tired if fighting..!!

I've been with my boyfriend about 3 mouths know. Truthfully it wouldnt of been that long. But were pregnant. So here we are "trying" but all this "trying" has me so tired of crying and fighting I just don't know what to do. I'm 12weeks pregnant. At first I though Im not gonna give up on a family that I always dreamed off. So I'm trying but I'm done were always fighting and yesterday he said I was the one. Me,me,me.! He was Mr. Perfect the one one that tries and it was me always starting the fight always so stupid and the one that don't lesson. I mean I'm not gonna blame it all on him because yes I know how I am. But I know dam well its not just me. See guys are really quick on blaming there **** on girls they can get in your head and make you feel like ****. But done. I told him to get **** and leave if he was so tired of me if I was the problem for him to leave. And noo he didnt . I'm done and I rather be a happy single mom then with no life always angry. We fight he says he needs to say then acts a few minutes later like nothing all lovey duby I can't leave my life like that. I need help.! I'm so tired and his words hurt.' I don't wanna be with someone I'm not happy with and I know its not gonna get any better from here.
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Honestly hun, the relationship needs to be let go of. If he cant make you smile, and cant treat you proper. Then purhaps youll be better off single, but still hold a friendship because lil one will need a daddy too. But however being a single mom isnt bad. My momma did it with 4. You can do anything you your mind too. Just remember dont stress as much, you and your babies health happiness is #1. :) hope you figure something out.
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Then leave. I'm actually trying to understand wtf I'm going to do in a situation much like yours but we already have to kids and if you don't leave now omg will it be so much harder to when your Lil baby is attached and used to him being there all the time!
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