single and pregnant

[destinyshai]

Single and 6months pregnant.he pushes me off more amd more the closer i get and it really hurts

[melsvb]

Well today I am going to get a restraining order something I never thought I would have to do :(

[melsvb]

Thanks..one day at a time rt now

[hayls_]

then let him leave hunny, I know you're heartbroken but if he was so bothered about you falling pregnant then maybe he should of been more careful, at the end of the day YOU are pregnant not him, if you don't want to abort your child you don't have to, if he walks out that baby isn't going ta love you any less, if anything you'll get more cos all the love they have to give will be just for you.. along with their cuddles & all their first words, you'll be their mother & farther in one, you'll be their first love, bestfriend & hero for their whole life, remember your baby isn't just a gift to you, you're a gift to them, stay strong hunny xx

[melsvb]

Thanks ladies!! I'm really happy I found this I just can't get an abortion. I've had cervical dysplasia and two surgeries and now he wants me to get an abortion!! And put my cervix thru another trauma. I don't want to risk never being able to have a baby after this.

[destinyshai]

Thank yall so much for your advice and encouragenent!

[destinyshai]

I just dobt understand it..this is his second child and my first.. i work 2 jobs he works offshore and wont help me with anything :( i try keeping busy but at night when im at home is when it really hits me.. im exactly 3 months away today and im really excited ill make the best bc my son didnt ask to be here and i love him already.

[Jazylicious]

I'm sorry you are going through this but your baby will give you the strength to keep going. Stay positive. I was a single parent with my daughter and she was my motivation when I was pregnant. I trust on my part to reach out to her biological father when she was born and he said he would be In her life that was a lie so I finally gave up but at least I knew on my heart I tried. She is 3 now. I'm married and expecting baby #2 and my husband loves her. It is easy for them to walk away but we get the most precious gifts of all. Keep your head up.

[Belladonna77]

I'm 37 and I learned a long time ago you don't need a man. They are not worth stressing over. Once you hold your baby for the first time that man will be nothing but a distant memory. Besides, if that's the way he's going to treat you, you'll get tired of it real soon. Best of luck to you.

[vmlopez]

In our partners as humans I believe they do it as cowardly move and fear of the unknown.they are scared **** less so ladies remember you are the back bone and take care of yourselves and your babies. Iam 5 months pregnant with my second child, my first is 13 years old.so all this rejection hit me hard at first.but now I go for are long walk or keep myself busy cleaning.take some pre mommy and me time..don't stress too much about your partner the baby can sense all of that.so relax.and keep busy remember you won't be pregnant forever enjoy the next couple months

[melsvb]

I'm Rt here with u my bf of four years is telling me he is leaving by next weekend if I don't get an abortion I told him to **** off but I am heartbroken. Someone who loves u is not suppose to treat u this way