Aa
so pissed
Im tired of my husband mom coming to me asking if her son has money and her telling me he hasn't payed rent im tired of always being in the middle
COMMUNITY LEADER
Anyway, I hope it all works out. I wouldn't turn anyone out on the street but 'might' be a tiny bit of a nag if I think money is owed. :>) Sometimes I'm a nag without even meaning to.
Hang in there. I sincerely hope it gets better.
Hang in there. I sincerely hope it gets better.
COMMUNITY LEADER
Hm. Well, are you guys behind in your rent? If you live there too, then you aren't really in the middle of it but also behind in the rent. We have a rental property and if a couple lives there, I don't just talk to the male but talk to whoever I run into or get on the line if they're late on rent. And we are really firm, rent is due when it is due and if it is late, there is a late charge. And if it is not paid by the end of the month, we begin discussing that eviction.
so, my point is this . . . paying rent and being on time with it is part of responsible even if it is paid to one's mom. It's taking advantage of her to expect anything different in my opinion.
Just being honest with you. If someone is an adult and they have an arrangement to pay rent, then it is pretty cut and dry. If the person chooses to do you a favor and cut you some slack, then that is to be appreciated. And that person does have a right in my opinion to ask when they'll be paid if money is owed. Even if it is mom. She may need the money or be concerned about her son being responsible and grown up.
good luck
so, my point is this . . . paying rent and being on time with it is part of responsible even if it is paid to one's mom. It's taking advantage of her to expect anything different in my opinion.
Just being honest with you. If someone is an adult and they have an arrangement to pay rent, then it is pretty cut and dry. If the person chooses to do you a favor and cut you some slack, then that is to be appreciated. And that person does have a right in my opinion to ask when they'll be paid if money is owed. Even if it is mom. She may need the money or be concerned about her son being responsible and grown up.
good luck
I get frustrated because my husband works all week and then every weekend his mom wants him to go see his grandparents i understand there old and he needs to spend time with them but i want my time too :-(
Yeah in my case its my mom and my bf so when she asks i just tell her i dont know cause we honestly dont discuss it. but shes seems to ask everytime.
Tell her you dont get i the middle of it, and you guys dont discuss finances, so you dont know and theres no point in askjng. That would make me mad too.
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