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so stressed i need advice....
A few days ago I posted about my step mom. Well I ended up talking about the gym and how we don't go so I wasn't going to pay my half anymore. Well she got mad and now isn't talking to me. She didn't even go to my doctor off and has done nothing but lay in bed. This has happened before. And she always talks about how my dad and grandpa don't want me and how it was her who let me back in. But I told my husband I wanted to go back to tn and live with my mom until we can move. Which won't be until next October before we can. So what do I do...if I stay she will find anything to fight with me or put me down.....
She has depression but according to her they have her on the highest mg they can give you. Idk if its true and she is bipolar. But like I said we were fine till I told her I can't afford my half of the gym. Its 12:37 and she is still in bed and will most likely stay there till 7 like yesterday but IDC anymore.
I want to work so bad but my husband is worried about me over doing it. He wants to wait till I have my lil girl. But now when I bring it up he says it will be hard for me to get to and from work. And since she is in bed and refuses to get up.
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Are you in school or job training to get yourself in a better financial position to not have to live with anyone other than your partner? That is a position of strength. Until then, you need people and kind of have to put up with their cruddy attitudes. Work on financial independence and then you are free of this daily drama of your family. good luck
You and your husband need to put all of your focus on getting out of there. Start saving every penny you have and get rid of everything but the non essentials and soon you'll have enough to leave her in your dust.
I don't have a car right now so I have to wait till tax time and that is if my husband can transfer to TN.
Yeah she says that I don't have to worry about leaving my lil girl with her because she won't lay in bed all day and that is bs she can't even take care of her own dogs. She puts them outside until she gets ready to get up. Its 5:48 and she still isn't up. But I know if I confront her she will just make me the bad guy.
You're going to need to get out of there ASAP. That's the only thing that will fix this. And after you leave, don't go out of your way to contact her for any reason. Write her off.
Yeah mine was the same, I also had to cook and clean for her, my dad, 3 brothers ,sister even though I was busy enough trying to take care of myself, my husband, taking care of my son and going to school without her helping me with anything, everything I did wasn't good enough and she kept putting me down after talking with my husband and having enough of being because of her I confronted her told how Ifelt that iI wasn't putting up with any of it she made me seem like the bad guy
Yeah I went years with out talking to her because off all this. I mean everything was fine up until I said I couldn't afford my half of the gym anymore and she won't talk to me. She expects me to clean and Cook so she can lay in bed. And I'm sorry but I am not a maid.
I went through a falling out with my mother, she was constantly blaming me for things as well, I moved out with my husband and we are much happier now. She still tries to start things and turned my whole 'family' against me.
Point is she's probably going to keep being the way she is to you so its best to try and not let it bother you. Mothers shouldn't treat their children that way no matter the circumstance. You are more than likely better off without the drama and stress she is causing for you
Point is she's probably going to keep being the way she is to you so its best to try and not let it bother you. Mothers shouldn't treat their children that way no matter the circumstance. You are more than likely better off without the drama and stress she is causing for you
She always makes it like its my fault and idk what to do I have a headache from crying do much
My husband is seeing if he can transfer to that area and I haven't said anything to her. So idk
Stay out of her way if yourfatherhas to seeu in tears do it do not let her push u jus do your part n tell her no n mean it oh n also pray
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