so upset :(

[Amber_777]

I feel so depressed, I'm constantly arguing with my husband he's always either out with his mates or spending time with his brothers and parents he hardly spends time with me. He argues with me and gets really abusive I just don't know what to do. I'm three months pregnant and meant to be happy

[littlemomma1215]

No woman deserves to be abused pregnant or not. He needs to get help or leave. I wouldn't put up with no man being abusive and y'all shouldn't either.never sacrifice your happiness to make others happy. You are number one and the only person going to look out for you is...YOU!!!

[brendaandflip]

Is it physically abusive? I would leave him u don't need that go and explore the world ... During ur pregnancy u should be happy and surrounded with positive ppl. My husband has always been gone but I don't even argue I just do my own thing and he then realizes I can do the same good luck

[lovinmylilmanadriel]

DOES ANYONE EVEN READ HER POST ????? SHE CLEARLY STATED HES ABUSIVE TOWARDS HER AND YOU ARE ALL TELLING HER TO PLAN RULES AND SET THEM UP WITH HIM ???? WHY SO HE CAN JUST BEAT HER AND THEN POSSIBLY KILL HER AND THE BABY ???? SHE NEEDS TO GET AWAY FROM HIM !!!! A GOOD FRIEND OF MY SISTERS WAS IN THIS SAME SITUATION SHE TRIED LEAVING HE BEAT HER SHE TRIED SETTING THINGS UP HE BEAT HER FINALLY SHE TRIED LEAVING HIM AGAIN HE BEAT HER KNOCKED HER UNCONSCIOUS AND BROUGHT HER TO A FIELD IN THE MIDDLE OF NOWHERE AND SET HER ON FIRE SHE IS DEAD !!!! IM SORRY TO BE SO RUDE OR SO TRUTHFUL BUT GIRL YOU NEED TO GET AWAY BEFORE ITS TOO LATE FOR YOU OR YOUR BABY ....

[figiel]

At the first two months of my pregnancy my husband behaved the same way.  Going out all the time that is.  It was an ongoing conversation and argument we had until he finally got the point.  Keep telling him how you feel.  Remember also he maybe feeling like this is his last hurrah before the baby.  Which as ridiculous as that is  maybe why hes acting this way.  Keep expressing your feelings and reasons.  Now as for abuse. If its the kind im imagining thats horrible and perhaps counseling may be a good option.   Good luck!  

[anj3li3]

Try to talk to.him? We used to have this issue thank goodness not anymore... anyway we compromise. So i give him play time for his ps4 for other game systems. And we have what we call "our time"

We set rules in the house and no excuse not to.have "our time"
Kid need to be in bed and then its mommy and daddy time. F he wants to hang out wth friends it has to be when i am working and its his problem to look for babysitter.
If he needs to go out it better be when I am at work. Same for me, if i go have me time it will be his video games time and its my job to look for babysitter or he can babysitt.

Setting rules in the house fixed the issue

[stephannieluvv]

OMG me to girl! Its so hard I've left once before and am border line of leaving again its like hello?! Did you not learn the first time I left for 3months.

[niolaisthebest]

I just ignore my bd if you act like you dOnt care

[MommaaLexi]

Me and my boyfriend have the same problem and it's really aggravating and hurtful trust me your not alone