someone please help me! Im new at the sex thing and i have questions!

[Arizonagirl]

I have a problem and i was wondering if anyone can help!
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now! soon to be husband! I did loose my verginity to him! Im new to the whole sex thing! And i thought that when having sex w/ someone was supposed to be the most exciting thing that was suppose to happen to me right!? Yes its fun and exciting to a point but, i feel like im just waiting until he ready to go and just get it over with! Hes always asking me did you go! And i thought that im supposed to do this! :/ And hes always trying to play w/ me(excuse me for the details!) But the other day we were talking and he had asked did i go and i had said no! And he diddnt get upset he was just worried! Im i not doing something right or am i not excited enough! Do i need to try something Help me out girls, please?!?! :( He does everything very good!?!? What do i do?

[Arizonagirl]

Thank you!  I will try that! :D We will see how it goes!

[shadowsting]

Not if they truly want you too enjoy it as well. Every body is different so Its not an insult if they don't know your body yet. You can wait and let him explore or talk about it. Up to you but I believe conversation works best.

[Arizonagirl]

ok so i need to relax! :/  So how do i tell him that which ways are better! I just dont want him to think that hes not doing such a bad job! I also read in another forum, that if we just show each other the best way it would be better?!? Do some guys hate that?!

[shadowsting]

RELAX!!!!! The more you focus on the end result the longer it will take. Some people just don't orgasm. Try stimulating the clitoris as well as the vagina. If your thinking about too much stimulate another area. If he is doing everything good and you enjoy it don't worry so much if you climax. It is after all about enjoying each other. As long as your both enjoying it whos to care.