stress

[nikki0820]

hello this is nikki...
i am on my bad times... i am working for a IT company were the stress is too high... i am also into a living in relationship.....
from the last 1 month i am feeling lonely and left out at work and thats how the whole thing started.... i started worring about my job and future.... it was so painful and i was totally depressed and went to the level of killing myself... later it was my partner who was at my rescue...
i am also a migrin patient and this kills half of my life...... i was under treatment for 2 year which decreased my headache but i gained a lot of weight and also my monthly period were irregular........

now i have stoped taking nedicine for migrin and under homeopathic treatment for regular periods and mental stress, which is effective...

i got my last period in 22 Jan and me and my partner met on 3 Feb and again on 16 Feb....... befoer my last periods  ie, jan 22 some time in mid jan i as had a emergency pills (i pills)

now i am tensed and want to know the exact cause for my delayed periods,... (my periods used be delayed by 6 months earlier)

can u help me please please please

[nikki0820]

thanks a ton... thanks thanks and many more thanks.........

your words are very really supportive.....

I always used to think that people with lots of problem in life undergo through this kind of depression... but for me i am very lucky to have very very supportive caring parents, sisters and also my sweet heart... but due to my OCD (ok i forget in my earlier post that i am also a OCD patient from my age 11 till date now i am 24- i was treated under very good scientists and i was under control till i used to take tablets which had a lot of side effect) i always feel i am disturbing and worring them for no reason.......  

my parents are very very prouds about me for my success in my life, but i am not enjoying it........ i cant say no to any who ask for help.... and people use me and take credit...... this hurts me a lot.......

[vmvnpv]

Sounds like stress and your depression is playing a major role in your delayed periods.  It could also be that you're off the meds that was helping to regulate you periods.  I would go see your doctor and explain everything to them.  They'll be able to do the right tests and to prescribe something to help you with your periods and your depression.  I would also (if you can afford it) talk to a therapist.  No one should have to go through this alone and they can help you sort things out and find ways to feel better (and sometimes it just helps to talk).  I'm sorry you're going through this.  I've gone through depression myself and know what it's like to feel alone and helpless.  It's not fun.  It's great you have such an understanding and loving partner.  Talk to him and he will help you to feel better (my husband does a good job at doing that).