the thing I hate most

[jasmine5725]

Me and my bf and his friend where at wing stop eating, when this really pretty skinny girl walks in, I caught my bf staring at her and I was like I saw that and he said he wasnt going to lie he did check her out. Kinda hurt my feelings because it just makes me feel fat and ugly, also considering im a teenager so like every young girl is wearing short high waisted shorts with crop tops showing half there stomach while im wearing a muscle short with black caprese shorts.

[AnnieBrooke]

I once told my husband that I had seen a woman at the airport going to pick someone up, and she was braless under a dress that looked like it was made out of a white pillowcase, and quite well endowed.  He smiled and said he wished he had seen it, and said "Things like that make a guy warm all over."  We laughed about that for a long time.

Try to lighten up, you are with an honest guy who tells you the truth.  Don't make him regret that he admitted looking, it's a pretty normal thing to do.

[Londres70]

Dear, most people are going to look at anything and anyone that's/who's attractive whether it is a beautiful painting, a nice sunset, a good-looking guy or girl, etc.  It is human and natural.  That doesn't mean he wants to get with this other girl; he is purely being human.  And it doesn't mean he thinks you're ugly compared to her.

My husband looks and I look too.  I even tell my husband when I catch him looking "She is gorgeous.....isn't she?"  Then we both start laughing.  

Look at this way, she may get a stare from your bf, but you get more than that from him.  He is with you.
  

[specialmom]

My husband is really smart .  . . because if he gets busted looking at a girl, he'll say "Oh.  I was just looking because I think that shirt would look really good on you."  Ha.  

We all look.  It's really meaningless.  It's up to all of us (men and women) to be discreet and not rude to our partners about it.  

good luck

[pixal_ember]

My guy does the same thing. He'll point out a girl and comment something then we take turns talking about how i got this and she don't.  We turn it into our little game.

[proudFTMTeTe]

i do the same as mrsperryman if i notice my bf checking someone out i just join along loln.laugh it off i know I'm who he wants n who he is with

[PonsGirl]

^^agreed. if I catch my hubby looking I check her out to. Then I tease him and we laugh about it.

[MrsPerryman]

Dnt feel bad me and my bf was riding in the car today we was talkin he cut me off my sayin damnnnnn she got a fat *** and he look at me said my bad but dnt she and I yelled out da window her and said u bussin baby and we just laughed it off but wen we got home he said baby u look beautiful today u just gotta look with them it's nothing wrong with a look lol

[jasmine5725]

Also I think another reason i think he might find someone else was bc of the issues we had in the past while I was pregnant !

[jasmine5725]

I know but it just put me down like really right in front of me ! Like do it when im not around, just I guess its the hormones and scared he might find someone prettier then me and yes I know there will always be someone more something then someone else but i mean I guess im insecure about how I look compared to other people now

[caligirl2657]

Best thing too do is NOT let little things like that get too you. It will make a relationship so much harder & miserable... if you know he's faithful to u then let him look, but u look too goes both ways ;)

[ajaponte]

At least he didn't try to lie about it. Honesty is really important.

[Kjens12]

My rule is you can look but you can't touch. I'd prefer my husband didn't make it obvious, but it's human nature to notice when someone is attractive. It does make you a little self conscious, which is normal just try to not let it get to you.

[Dechae23]

I wouldn't even trip off that because I feel the same way about my boyfriend but in reality everyone is gunna be in more shape then us we are PREGNANT don't stress out over it honestly I'm focusing on my baby and my body after I lose all of the weight!! Just don't worry about none of that just brush it off because it's not worth the stress :)

[knufrio]

It also doesn't help that his friend was there. Men like looking cool in front of their friends like that . I wouldn't sweat it too much.

[babyguillermo]

Yes i absolutely agree with her!!!

[mamabear8911]

It's in nature for people to look.  I'm sure if it was a hot guy you would've checked him out too. Nothing wrong. Don't feel bad,  u got the Bf and carrying his baby.. The miracle of life is the best gift!