thrown bf out

Question

I am nearly 12 weeks with my first.  Im 21 and my boyfriend never used to want to leave my side.  He now wants to be at his friends all the time and lies about when hes coming home.  Itl be hours im waiting. I am always on my own bored he wont stay one weekend and have a night in with me he has to go play the xbox!  Today he lied about him already nearly at his friends so i couldnt pick him up from work.  He said he finished at 5 even though he finishes at half 5..I passed his work at half 5 and there he was.  What was the point in lying about something so pointless and small.  I have tried to talk to him,  he needs to grow up so i have packed his bags and took them to his mums for him to live there again.  am i doing the right thing?

anj3li3 · Accepted Answer

Yes to make him realize and think about his priorities. I know its tough love but most of the time that what works... for me it has been trial and error, my husband now understand I dont do threats i just do it.. so if i ask nicely he know now its what I want and we compromise.

dorothy701 · Answer

You may be I I would post that as a question on the social so that maby someone who has been there can conferm. And sphie I understand he sounds like he means well and maby this time apart will show him what he is missing

klarunka · Answer

Every month my periods are weird. From star its normal blood ten it turns to brown and at the end when my periods should end it gets light pink, even though i have made several pregnancy tests its negative. Then i went to my GP where they made a preg test that was NEGATIVE aswell. I would like to ask if i could be preg as if i got some changes on my periods every month. My family and friends and also my bf said that i have changed on my body i have bid belly which seems true, i never had this before.

Sophieparsons92 · Answer

Thanks.  I fell pregnant on the pill so was a total shock.  But hes always wanted a baby and is really happy and says he wants to be there for me.  he doesnt think hes doing anything wrong.  Trying to be strong and just got to be lonely for a week or so i need to see change from him

dorothy701 · Answer

Yes some times guys get freaked and think they need to go live it up b4 baby gets here and they don't understand that we do t get to do that. And that leaving us alone is so hurtfull!! A lot of times guys just need to be shocked into seeing clearer and if he doesn't then you will have your answer there too you don't need him if he doesn't want to be on the baby boat. If that was the case he should have thought of that b4 hand!!!